My problem is this... my wife and I can have sex for long periods of time, and it seems like I'm not getting anywhere. I love being with her and it feels great, but it just takes me forever to orgasm. I know some men would kill to have my problem, but sometimes we'd like to just be spontaneous and have a quickie on a lunch break or something, but it takes me forever to orgasm. It takes a lot of foreplay and a lot of intercourse to get me there. Is there any way to speed up the process? Thanks.
I masturbate very infrequently, like maybe once or twice a week (if that much) now taht I'm married. We use lubes sometimes, but really don't need them as we seem to produce quite enough on our own We do have a lot of foreplay and we do have a great sex life. It's just that sometimes you want to 'get to it' like a couple of randy teenagers, and thirty minutes of foreplay doesn't exactly fit in.