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Old 12-13-2004, 05:31 PM   #1
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Wink Not sensitive enough

My problem is this... my wife and I can have sex for long periods of time, and it seems like I'm not getting anywhere. I love being with her and it feels great, but it just takes me forever to orgasm. I know some men would kill to have my problem, but sometimes we'd like to just be spontaneous and have a quickie on a lunch break or something, but it takes me forever to orgasm. It takes a lot of foreplay and a lot of intercourse to get me there. Is there any way to speed up the process? Thanks.

 
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Old 12-14-2004, 03:07 PM   #2
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Re: Not sensitive enough

Do you masturbate? If so, then you probably know how to make yourself go fast. Maybe you should try masturbating before hand until you're almost ready to climax, then have sex to finish it off.

 
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Old 12-16-2004, 04:51 PM   #3
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Re: Not sensitive enough

Have you tried any lubricants?

I heard there are some that add extra stimulation.

John

 
Old 12-17-2004, 02:06 AM   #4
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Re: Not sensitive enough

I masturbate very infrequently, like maybe once or twice a week (if that much) now taht I'm married. We use lubes sometimes, but really don't need them as we seem to produce quite enough on our own We do have a lot of foreplay and we do have a great sex life. It's just that sometimes you want to 'get to it' like a couple of randy teenagers, and thirty minutes of foreplay doesn't exactly fit in.

 
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