I masturbate very infrequently, like maybe once or twice a week (if that much) now taht I'm married. We use lubes sometimes, but really don't need them as we seem to produce quite enough on our own

We do have a lot of foreplay and we do have a great sex life. It's just that sometimes you want to 'get to it' like a couple of randy teenagers, and thirty minutes of foreplay doesn't exactly fit in.