Will anxiety cause less than rock hard erections?
I'm in my mid 20's and I've never had a problem before. I was married before and had sex a thousand times without ever giving this a second thought but now its becoming a nagging issue for me! I'm healthy, never done drugs, and in great shape. When I was first messing with my current girlfriend when we were "dry humping", i was hard as a rock for like 2 hours and didn't even ejaculate. BUt a couple months later, when we went to have sex, I was nervous because she was the first woman i felt connected to since my ex wife. I could not get it hard that first attempt. It really hit me hard cuz it never happened before. I chocked it up to nerves. To say the least i was embarrassed. Since then, it has been off and on having a problem getting an erection and if i do, keeping it hard through foreplay. It is killing me mentally. at 27, i should not need Viagra. Can nerves and the constant worrying that it will happen time and time again, cause this reocurring nightmare? If so, what's the solution? My girlfriend is understanding but i don't want to make her less than totally happy, she deserves better. And to think, I would have never given this a second thought before that first time. Thanks guys.