Options for a Man
Without going into TMI mode, just curious what guys have gone thru, if anything, like me.
I'm 30, 6'5" 300lbs, *but* down from 400lbs. In another thread, I was relating the idea that the current g/f and I getting to that point where we like to experience *everything* between us. But the past two times we've initiated it, I've gotten soft at the wrong times.
I want to be with this woman and I'm contemplating talking to my doctor to see if there's something wrong, internally. It got me to thinking, is there something that a guy like me, physically, can do to improve my performance?
-Could losing 10,20 or 30 lbs be a big thing? Get rid of my flab which is probably a detriment to me right now?
-Could my weight affect my testosterone production? If that's the case, would losing weight, coupled with some way to increase my T, help out?
I say "physically", since I don't feel there's anything wrong upstairs, since I get turned on by her, it's just something that's short-circuited when I'm with her intimately. And maybe right now, I feel that it's something physical, since my sex drive is there. I don't wish to disappoint her and I want to be with her.