Originally Posted by jill30
I have been on birth control pills for 5 months now. My husband said that I should not use them and he would just pull out when it happens. When we were dating he was the one who told me to go on bc pill so he could ejaculate inside of me. Now that I am on it he said its really no big deal to pull out. I thought thats what turns men on when they can ejaculate inside.
Sometimes, the Bird and the Bees story never makes it completely across to everyone, but I would think the average 36 year old should know better about his reproduction capability. Pulling out offers no guarantee in preventing pregnancy.
What is his problem (or yours) with you staying on B/C. If he wanted to become a daddy, pulling out would be the last thing he would want to do. That reasoning would be puzzling.