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Old 12-28-2004, 04:54 PM   #1
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controlling ejaculation & other problems

I'm 17 years old and I'm still a virgin. my girlfriend has had sex but only once. anyway, when I do finally get round to having sex with her, I'm worried that I may ejaculate prematurely. are tehre any excercises I can do or home remedies I can take to control this?

my worry is brought about by the fact that I often get erections when just kissing her, and it's usually at awkward times.

finally, is there a way of increasing the volume of my ejaculation? to be honest it's kinda pathetic even at the best of times.

please help.

 
Old 12-28-2004, 05:34 PM   #2
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Re: controlling ejaculation & other problems

There is no need to be overly worried until after you see how things go. You will, of course, use a condom, and that in and of itself should significantly slow things down as opposed to not using one. If you do pop fast, simply tell her that you found her so sexy that you simply couldn't control yourself; then proceed with pleasuring her until you can regain your erection and have a second go at it. Some guys, too, will masturbate to a climax shortly before meeting the girl to help delay things.

The best way to increase volume is to have regular, periodic ejaculations. Some men can maintain higher volumes better than others. That is, some men can have good ejaculations each and every day, while others only every other day, for example. If you are tying to show off for your gf, then hold off for a few days (but, of course, that will make you more likely to climax faster).

 
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Old 12-29-2004, 09:08 AM   #3
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Re: controlling ejaculation & other problems

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finally, is there a way of increasing the volume of my ejaculation? to be honest it's kinda pathetic even at the best of times.
just thought I'd mention that women aren't usually concerned with the volume of ejaculate and I wouldn't bother going to any trouble just to try to 'show off' for your gf. In fact I've heard many women say they find large amounts... well, let's just stick with 'not appealing', so please don't worry about that.

 
Old 12-29-2004, 09:18 AM   #4
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Re: controlling ejaculation & other problems

it's not to impress her, it's more about making me feel more comfortable in myself.


thanks for the advice anyay

 
Old 12-29-2004, 09:46 AM   #5
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Re: controlling ejaculation & other problems

I agree with the posters above,thats good advise, also you may try to be more on the relax side, give her more forplay the more aroused she becomes the faster and better intense her orgsams.... just take your time,and during the session go a little slower than usaual/or until she reaches climax. ...that may help you?....and just like Ms Thisby has said "women aren't usally concerned with the volume of ejaculation".............it's the pleasure!

This is something your just going to have to learn on yourself about the "premature ejaculation" problem.... theres books and stuff you can read as well as these healthboards for helping you.....I think you will get over that as you get older!

Perhaps,
If your a guy that justs over sensitive/ seek a professionals...... They may save you lots of heartaches.

 
Old 12-29-2004, 07:56 PM   #6
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Re: controlling ejaculation & other problems

this may sound like a sappy answer, but it's the truth: Hey if your girlfriend is cool, comfortable around you and understanding...then it shouldn't be a problem. And it does give you a chance to do it twice in one night your first time...now that's REALLY something to be happy about.

 
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