My nephew just turned 13. My bother and I have a very open relationship. The other day I asked him if he had caught his son playing with Mr. Winky yet. He looked at me like I was crazy and very seriously said that he never did and he doesn't expect Ryan too either. He was not joking or too embarrassed to tell me the truth. I told him I'd never know a man (boyfriend) who didn't masterbate. Then he made a crude comment about the kind of guys I go out with. Isn't masterbating normal? I'm worried about my nephew. I'm afraid what will happen if he does get caught. Does anyone think I should say something, maybe to my SIL or just mind my own buisness.
I wouldn't worry about it. Some people do masturbate, and some don't. I know guys who do, and guys who don't. You don't need to bring it up, I don't think.
it almost sound like your brother doesnt want to think of his son as sexually active yet at least...my brother who is now 15 has been masterbating sinse he was 11 i think...i have a very good relationship with him andwhen i asked him he seemed alittle embarrassed but got over it....with the mindset of teens and even younger it would suprise me if any boys didnt masterbate...let alone girls for that matter as well....but i dont think you need to bring it up again....wait until hes ready to talk about his son have anything to do with sexuality...its a touchy subject
I can't imagine that most young men and men don't masturbate. The male sex drive is so strong that I don't think I could have survived it without masturbation before I got married.