What is with sex? - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

Piranna65 · 04-04-2005, 09:31 PM

Hey guys, Im back again and looking for some more insight!!

My boyfriend has an extremely high sex drive. We had sex last night and when we woke up this morning that was the first thing on his mind. Every morning is the same he's always got the morning erection.

We have sex 2-4 times a week. It seems comfortable for me (the number of times) but he feels as if it should be more. If i say "i dont wanna" or "we just did it last night!!" he gets upset and says "you never wanna do it, its not fair, you have the power yada yada" then I get the feeling he's upset w/me. He claims he isnt.

I know he loves me im not doubting that. And im am totally in love w/him. But I just dont know how to control him when it comes to sex.

He does masturbate from time to time. I have even sacraficed (giving in like last night, i had a killer headache and cramps, yet he still had a one track mind---that kinda made me feel like crap because I thought he woulda said something) But I have given him oral to get him off if im not willing, and other times ive given in and had sex.

Is there anyway to calm them hormones down??

tidus 007 · 04-04-2005, 11:42 PM

its just what humans are made to do you cant fight your instincts , just discuss it with him

HelpHelpHelp · 04-05-2005, 12:36 AM

my bf likes to ejaculate half a dozen times a day. Doesn't bother me, except when I'm busy.

tictac · 04-05-2005, 07:45 AM

Oh, I feel your pain. My bf is the same way, if not worse. He wants to do it again 10 minutes after we've just done it. A couple weeks ago we did it 9 times in one day before I finally had to put my foot down and and tell him to get a life. I don't think there's anything we can do about them. He probably has high testosterone levels-my bf does. Even though it's a pain (literally sometimes), I would rather have it this way than the other extreme of him not wanting me at all. Somewhere in the middle would be nice though! Oh well.

wood650 · 04-05-2005, 08:51 AM

Take it from a long-time married man. This is a constant male/female problem. I am always horny, and my wife could go forever without it. You have to learn to compromise somehow.