Re: are men sensitive after ejaculating?
It depends on the individual--I'm surprised that so many guys here responded that they are sensitive that way, like your bf, after they've climaxed. As for me, I'm not -- the head is not affected that way at all by having an orgasm, by whatever means. After the 15-20 seconds or whatever duration of the orgasm, during which I thrust or stroke vigorously, I usually continue thrusting slowly for a little while (in intercourse) or, likewise, stroking if masturbating, "tapering off" rather than just suddenly stopping all action. The sensation to the head is still pleasurable, just in a different, more relaxed, less intense way, obviously, than during the explosive phase of the actual orgasm.
As I understand it, this difference among guys as to sensitivity of the head can apply to the actual duration of the orgasm itself, not just the period afterward. Some stop all motion, all friction as soon as they "go over the edge" and begin ejaculating, regardless of how vigorous & rapid their thrusting/stroking has been right up TO that point. Others of us continue vigorous stimulation all the way through the orgasm, like I mentioned before--the sensations of the orgasm would stop almost completely if the rapid-movement friction being applied were to be stopped. It's kind of a mystery to me as to what guys feel if they stop all friction as soon as they begin ejaculating---do they really experience an intense orgasm, lasting for some little time (+/- 15-20 seconds, as I said above) as I do, but entirely on auto-pilot, with no active stimulation? Or do the pleasurable sensations they've "achieved" by heavy friction all the way up to this point just sort of stop, and they just feel the ejaculation itself taking place? That's probably a question that should be raised as an independent topic for discussion, come to think of it. --In any case, these are just more ways that people's systems are set up differently.