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sarakellieye · 07-18-2005, 09:11 AM

Hi everyone,

i ama 19 year old female and i have ben seeing the love of my life for over 2 years anyway im not shy and have no problem doing most things in the bedroom but one thing i can never bring myself to do is give my boyfriend a blow job, i REALLY want to do it though and every time i have tried i just stop and say ''i cant'' afer a minute..Im just afraid im doing it wrong or that im no good at it, i obviousley know the normal rules apply ..no biting/drawing blood etc

LOL!! but im just wondering do you men have any tips or advice for me..

By the way i have never spoke to my boyfriend about this and dont plan to.......i d like to be just able to do it so any advice you have or tips i would be so greatfull cos i know how important oral is too men and i really want to give him the best oral ever..

Thanks in advance ..Sara

smacum04 · 07-18-2005, 12:58 PM

Actually, you would be much better off talking to your boyfriend about it ... If you are uncomfortable talking to him about it, then wait until you are actually doing it and then prompt him with things like "Do you like that?" or "Tell me what feels good." It's nice to know when someone really wants to know how to please you.

If you haven't spoken to him about it and you start to do it and then stop and just say "I can't" then there is no telling what he is thinking. I know I would think that there was a problem with me. "Do I smell bad? Taste bad?" That would not be too good.

Every man likes differnt things. Some like to be sucked on softly, some very hard. Some like to be nibbled on (not bitten!) and some don't. Personally, the way I see it is if my woman is doing it for me at all I have no room to complain about her technique. But my wife and I are very vocal with one another and are not embarrased to say what we like and want.

If you can reach that point with your man then your sex life will improve beyond your wildest dreams.

Talk to him and ask him what he likes. He'll appreciate it.

Good luck!

mrbojangle · 07-18-2005, 02:03 PM

Why don't you try alternating oral with using your hand to please him, that way you can sort of judge what he is enjoying and then finish to ejaculation with your hand. Hope this helps.

Mod-S4 · 07-18-2005, 02:04 PM

Please read the Special Rules sticky at the top of any of the four Sexual Health boards.

Do not ask for tips on sexual technique.

(And you have already posted for adivce on the Women's Sexual Health board. Duplicate posts are not necessary.)

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