When I am laying in bed with my husband I sometimes hold his penis in my hand.When I do this he does something like kegel muscle contractions.he says he doesn't realize he's doing it,can anybody explain this to me?
But he says he doesn't know hes doing it.He even does it when hes sleeping.Most of the time I'm holding it he doesn't have an erection.
Squeezing the head of a penis slightly causes an involuntary muscle reaction that causes the anus to contract, which feels good. I think its called the bulbo-cavernosus reflex. It's a must for a strong erection.