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Old 07-26-2005, 06:15 AM   #1
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staying hard and lasting

I'm 31 and haven't dated for a long time. I just met teh most tamazing girl and when we have sex I can't either stay hard or last for very long and I'm afraid she's gonna leave if I can't perform. is there anything out there that can help.

 
Old 07-26-2005, 01:53 PM   #2
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Re: staying hard and lasting

Try not masturbating for a couple of weeks. The reason is that it trains us to climax quickly and it provides stronger stimulation than a womens body ever can and if thats all you have been doing for a long while a womens body can not compete.

 
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Old 07-27-2005, 01:48 PM   #3
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Re: staying hard and lasting

Actually, I used masturbation to learn how to last longer. I would masturbate to a point where I felt like ejaculation was about to happen and then stop. I'd then start up again. In doing so, I learned the muscles involved in getting to the point of ejaculation and how to control them. Now, I can last as long as I want and ejaculate almost on demand. I would also watch porn to get into different techniques, positions and fantasies. I'd make sure that I could last through several "scenes". As for staying hard, try to enjoy what you're doing and feeling and spend considerable more thoght into what she is feeling. Try to read her movements to know what makes her feel better. If you need to fall into a little mental fantasy, then go ahead. But usually spending your mental time trying to please her takes care of both problems.

 
Old 07-28-2005, 04:30 PM   #4
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Re: staying hard and lasting

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Originally Posted by alienxing
I'm 31 and haven't dated for a long time. I just met teh most tamazing girl and when we have sex I can't either stay hard or last for very long and I'm afraid she's gonna leave if I can't perform. is there anything out there that can help.
If you can, try either cycling (you can use an indoor bike) or jogging. It will develop your cardiovascular system, which will in turn affect your erections in a positive way.

 
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