 time and effort required for orgasm
I am new to these boards, but would like some help.
I haven't had a sexual relationship with a girl for a long time, mainly because Ms right hasn't turned up yet. I don't agree with casual sex since the advent of AIDS and other STDs. Consequently I masturbate.
The masturbation is not compulsive and probably massage my penis to the point of orgasm and ejaculation every other day, usually at night. I find it easy to get and maintain an erection. However, I find that I am having to rub and grip the penis much harder than I used to, and also have to tense up to actually ejaculate. Obviously this would not be easy if I actually on top or underneath and try to penetrate the girl.
There are a couple questions:
1. Is this an normal situation or should I be concerned?
2. If I start a sexual relationship with a girl that I can trust, will her vagina grip my penis hard enough, more to the point if it is taking so much effort masturbating with my hand, I would imagine that I would have to pump in to the girl's vagina in the same way?
I don't want to hurt her, but would want to make pleasurable for both of us.
I would be grateful for any advice.
Chris R
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