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Old 07-27-2005, 04:24 AM   #1
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Question time and effort required for orgasm

I am new to these boards, but would like some help.

I haven't had a sexual relationship with a girl for a long time, mainly because Ms right hasn't turned up yet. I don't agree with casual sex since the advent of AIDS and other STDs. Consequently I masturbate.

The masturbation is not compulsive and probably massage my penis to the point of orgasm and ejaculation every other day, usually at night. I find it easy to get and maintain an erection. However, I find that I am having to rub and grip the penis much harder than I used to, and also have to tense up to actually ejaculate. Obviously this would not be easy if I actually on top or underneath and try to penetrate the girl.

There are a couple questions:

1. Is this an normal situation or should I be concerned?

2. If I start a sexual relationship with a girl that I can trust, will her vagina grip my penis hard enough, more to the point if it is taking so much effort masturbating with my hand, I would imagine that I would have to pump in to the girl's vagina in the same way?

I don't want to hurt her, but would want to make pleasurable for both of us.


I would be grateful for any advice.

Chris R

 
Old 07-29-2005, 02:39 PM   #2
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Re: time and effort required for orgasm

Do you use a lubricant while masturbating? If you don't you should. You can use and oil or a water based lubricant. In general, anything that you can ingest is okay to use, even canola oil or salad oil.

This feels more like a vagina than a dry hand tugging on your penis. You'll find that you won't have to grab as hard and orgasm will probably be reached much easier and be much more pleasurable.

 
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