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Old 08-17-2005, 02:11 PM   #1
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Virgin needing help with experienced girl

Well this weekend I'll be having sex for the first time, I'm 23 years. My problem is, I'm a virgin and I haven't even done ANYTHING before with a girl, I have social anxiety so I was always way to shy, even to make out. Either way, is there anything I can do so I don't totally disappoint her or last a decent ammount of time? Any help would be great. >< She's experienced which actually kinda scares me.

 
Old 08-17-2005, 03:09 PM   #2
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First, relax..... be yourself, don't try to be or do something you are not confortable with.
Best advice is do not rush things, enjoy the talking before and the foreplay before the act!
AND BE CAREFUL, USE A CONDOM.
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Old 08-17-2005, 03:10 PM   #3
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

Ah thanks, Sure I'm scared but its something I really want to do. I'll use a condom ofcourse. ^_^

 
Old 08-17-2005, 03:27 PM   #4
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Happy to hear that

 
Old 08-18-2005, 02:38 AM   #5
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

you might want to just be upfront with her and tell her that you're nervous- although this is the only time in your life it'll probably work. she might like being your teaacher!

 
Old 08-18-2005, 02:44 AM   #6
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

hey man, let her lead the way and have a great time! it might take a couple of goes to get it right but practice makes perfect right? have fun!

 
Old 08-18-2005, 02:33 PM   #7
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

Yeah I told her I was, she didn't seem to care. She just asked how many condoms to bring..

 
Old 08-20-2005, 09:56 AM   #8
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

Ah, will masturbating early in the day before she comes help me last longer with her?

 
Old 08-23-2005, 11:54 AM   #9
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

Ah, someone I care about a lot actually ended up coming to the party.. Seeing her made me know I couldn't just go do it with someone else, So I ended up not doing it at all.
Thanks for the advice though

 
Old 08-31-2005, 09:41 AM   #10
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

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Originally Posted by nyccle
Well this weekend I'll be having sex for the first time, I'm 23 years. My problem is, I'm a virgin and I haven't even done ANYTHING before with a girl, I have social anxiety so I was always way to shy, even to make out. Either way, is there anything I can do so I don't totally disappoint her or last a decent ammount of time? Any help would be great. >< She's experienced which actually kinda scares me.
I was just browsing around on here and noticed your post. I was curious about social anxiety and did some research on it. I think I have some of those symptoms.

 
Old 08-31-2005, 10:15 AM   #11
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Haha don't feel bad man. I am a 22 year old virgin. I have had plenty of opportunities to have sex with attractive girls/women and I always found an excuse not to(penis not large enough, wouldn't last long enough, exc exc).
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But sorry for rambling it's been a great two weeks for me, the moral of the story is; You gotta learn sometime bro, whats more embarassiing a 23 year old who is sexual inexperienced or a 33 year old who is? The sooner the better, find someone who is willing to "work with you" and go for it. If you are scared about not being good, I recommend watching a bunch of porn. When I was performing oral I was thinking about all the porn I had watched and pretty much what girls would do to each other in that situation. Also if you need to relax maybe have a few drinks, let her perform oral on you before you have sex so you will last longer. Just go for it man I plan on having sex sometime in the very near future myself I'm not gonna turn down good opportunities anymore, I'm getting to old to be picky.

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Old 08-31-2005, 09:03 PM   #12
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Re: Virgin needing help with experienced girl

To avoid ejaculating too early, be prepared to think of something that will slow your heart rate down a bit and ease the sensation (your job, your schedule next week, counting calories from your last meal, etc). Don't be afraid to tell her you may be getting a bit too excited - if she's experienced she will slow down or stop until you're ready to go again. Girls get flattered at guys who are ready to *** right away - they think they've done their role, but if you want to satisfy her, you'll want to shoot for a good 10-15 minutes minimum of pretty steamy action.

 
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