Er, okay. This is a little embarrasing but I feel the need to ask the question - While I was having sex, while slightly drunk, with my girlfriend, I obviously managed to get into the wrong position or something. Now, I'm not entirely sure that's what ripped it my frenulum - The band of skin that used to join the inside of my foreskin to the tip of my penis is now ripped to about half way down of where it was joined. Now, it healed really well and looks fairly normal and everything, the only problem is, I worry that next time I have sex it may rip the rest of the way? If I pull my foreskin back while erect I am getting a little bit of pain and don't want this to get in the way of having a happy sex life.. After all, it was embarrasing enough bleeding all over my girlfriend once. Anyone help?
use it, just be a little more careful. have sex sober, it feels better.
sometimes the frenulum tears. it is not the most sturdy part of the human body. it may never tear again. it might tear several times, and then never again. scar tissue heals stronger. mine tore for about three months, many years ago. then it never tore again. just make sure that it is fully healed before you attempt masturbation or sex.
Your not alone mate. Last weekend after much beer I began the act of sexual intercourse with my girl. This resulted in a torn frenulum accompanied by a lot of blood followed by pain. Much, much pain and vomit (due to shock and perhaps beer). I now still feel pain when the area is touched or rubs against clothing. To prevent infection I bathed the area in diluted antiseptic solution, which only helped make the pain worse and produce allot of dryness. From now on I just rinse the area and avoid too much soap. My only concern now is when it will heal up. Anyone got any suggestions as I think Iíll be out of action for a month?
Well, this was a good 2 weeks ago and mine feels fine now normally (Even during masturbation, notably) but the frenulum is still fairly weak. I think the part that worries me is it really did rip quite far, so the remainder is only very small and weak. Bleeding sexual appendages are not the greatest turn on!
Perhaps I should talk to the doc about having this last little bit removed?
Two weeks eh? Well better than a month i suppose it does seem to get better by the day tho. Ive not sought medical aid in the form of a doctor as yet, however as its been suggested if worse comes to worse i may need an operation. I'm already feeling withdrawal symptoms from not masturbating inc uncontrollable anger and the overwhelming need to copulate with anything that moves ; anybody any suggestions other than reading?