What is "normal" in the errection dept??
My husband is 27 and has a hard time getting an errection. We've been together for about 4 years and it's always been an issue, but now it's more frequent. I have to coax it up every time now. He can still have a random errection on occasion or in the morning (so I hear). I can give him oral sex and it will stay flacid the whole time, even after ejaculation. He's pretty defensive about it and claims that girls just expect a guy to get it up but most guys are this way. He is the first male I've been with where I had to coax and beg it up. I try not to make him feel bad, at the same time, after four years, you need to get over yourself and go see a doctor. Anyways, is he right in thinking that this is normal or is that just his ego talking?