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Old 09-10-2005, 12:00 AM   #1
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Orgasm question.. please answer..

I have a question that I dont know where else to go to get an answer for.. Is it normal to be quiet during an orgasm? My boyfriend hardly makes any noises at all during sex except an occasional out of breath noise and when he ejaculates hardly no noise at all, does this mean hes not really enjoying it I dont want him to be unhappy I just thought all guys make noises..

 
Old 09-10-2005, 03:41 AM   #2
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Re: Orgasm question.. please answer..

I dont make any noises either , except when the breathing is heavy at the end.I wouldnt worry about it and there will just be as many guys who make a noise as those who dont.Maybe you could ask your boyfreind why he is quiet?.......maybe he thinks making a noise is not what you want to hear.

 
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Old 09-10-2005, 04:38 AM   #3
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Re: Orgasm question.. please answer..

My husband is silent from beginning to end - but I know he is loving every minute of it!

 
Old 09-10-2005, 06:39 AM   #4
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I believe most guys don't really make much noise unless they're in a porno or something.

 
Old 09-10-2005, 08:51 AM   #5
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I'm usually quiet, too. Everyone's different. If you want him to make noise, ask him. It's either in his nature to be quiet or he's afraid it will offend you or he's just a little self conscious about making noise.

 
Old 09-10-2005, 10:22 AM   #6
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I dont really care if hes quiet or not thats not a problem I just wanted to make sure he was still enjoying hisself.. thanks for the info

 
Old 09-10-2005, 02:37 PM   #7
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My hubby used to be real quiet and shy too, until I said "honey be loud with me," lol and he definately did . He is still generally not too verbal, but he does it more often now because he knows it turns me on big time . Really whats wrong with letting loose every now again?

 
Old 09-10-2005, 06:45 PM   #8
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i make noise but nothing to crazy. when i ejaculate i shake a bit to so get him into it more.....talk dirty to him

 
Old 09-11-2005, 05:27 AM   #9
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I don't make hardly any noise.

 
Old 09-11-2005, 11:26 AM   #10
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its perfectly normal to be quiet
but you bet your bottom dollar that they are definitly enjoying themselves

 
Old 09-11-2005, 05:14 PM   #11
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Ya my boyfriend is a quiet one also. At first I was a little upset that he didnt make noise and did not have a lot of facial expressions but that is just how a lot of guys are. At first I had the same thoughts as you, that hes not enjoying it. But he reassured me that he was.
So dont worry, most guys are quiet. Some are loud. Everyones different.

 
Old 09-12-2005, 04:40 AM   #12
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Ya my boyfriend is a quiet one also. At first I was a little upset that he didnt make noise and did not have a lot of facial expressions but that is just how a lot of guys are. At first I had the same thoughts as you, that hes not enjoying it. But he reassured me that he was.
So dont worry, most guys are quiet. Some are loud. Everyones different.
I'm another quiet one.

 
Old 09-12-2005, 01:22 PM   #13
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I am usually audible, but sometimes quiet. I like talking to her during sex.


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I believe most guys don't really make much noise unless they're in a porno or something.

I've seen porn where the girl is totally hot and sexy, making really sexy sounds, and the guy is either semi-hard or silent/expressionless, like he thinks he's being 'all business' or something ( snicker )...GEEZ I never could understand that...dang man, let me get in there, since it obviously doesn't make any difference to you whether you're having sex with a hot beautiful lover or not !

 
Old 09-12-2005, 01:25 PM   #14
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My boyfriend was like that when we first started hanging out. I know it's easier said than done sometimes to say to him "Hey could you make noise during sex?". So one night, after a couple cocktails I said jokingly that I wish he would make some noise during sex half expecting him to brush it off, though he HAPPILY obliged and it's been smooth sailing ever since He also added if I ever ever ever wanted something he wasnt doing or didn't like something he was doing - just speak up! Obviously, in a comfortable relationship that's a given, but it makes it easier to hear him say it first! So me speaking up about the noise issue helped in more ways than one.

 
Old 09-12-2005, 02:19 PM   #15
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I am really quite vocal which my wife loves since it helps her to climax and orgasm faster.

 
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