I have a question that I dont know where else to go to get an answer for.. Is it normal to be quiet during an orgasm? My boyfriend hardly makes any noises at all during sex except an occasional out of breath noise and when he ejaculates hardly no noise at all, does this mean hes not really enjoying it I dont want him to be unhappy I just thought all guys make noises..
I dont make any noises either , except when the breathing is heavy at the end.I wouldnt worry about it and there will just be as many guys who make a noise as those who dont.Maybe you could ask your boyfreind why he is quiet?.......maybe he thinks making a noise is not what you want to hear.
I'm usually quiet, too. Everyone's different. If you want him to make noise, ask him. It's either in his nature to be quiet or he's afraid it will offend you or he's just a little self conscious about making noise.
My hubby used to be real quiet and shy too, until I said "honey be loud with me," lol and he definately did . He is still generally not too verbal, but he does it more often now because he knows it turns me on big time . Really whats wrong with letting loose every now again?
Ya my boyfriend is a quiet one also. At first I was a little upset that he didnt make noise and did not have a lot of facial expressions but that is just how a lot of guys are. At first I had the same thoughts as you, that hes not enjoying it. But he reassured me that he was.
So dont worry, most guys are quiet. Some are loud. Everyones different.
Ya my boyfriend is a quiet one also. At first I was a little upset that he didnt make noise and did not have a lot of facial expressions but that is just how a lot of guys are. At first I had the same thoughts as you, that hes not enjoying it. But he reassured me that he was.
So dont worry, most guys are quiet. Some are loud. Everyones different.
I am usually audible, but sometimes quiet. I like talking to her during sex.
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Originally Posted by rainy daze
I believe most guys don't really make much noise unless they're in a porno or something.
I've seen porn where the girl is totally hot and sexy, making really sexy sounds, and the guy is either semi-hard or silent/expressionless, like he thinks he's being 'all business' or something ( snicker )...GEEZ I never could understand that...dang man, let me get in there, since it obviously doesn't make any difference to you whether you're having sex with a hot beautiful lover or not !
My boyfriend was like that when we first started hanging out. I know it's easier said than done sometimes to say to him "Hey could you make noise during sex?". So one night, after a couple cocktails I said jokingly that I wish he would make some noise during sex half expecting him to brush it off, though he HAPPILY obliged and it's been smooth sailing ever since He also added if I ever ever ever wanted something he wasnt doing or didn't like something he was doing - just speak up! Obviously, in a comfortable relationship that's a given, but it makes it easier to hear him say it first! So me speaking up about the noise issue helped in more ways than one.
. He is still generally not too verbal, but he does it more often now because he knows it turns me on big time 
. Really whats wrong with letting loose every now again?
But it is normal. Some make noise, others don't. It just depends on the person.
