It appears you have not yet Signed Up with our community. To Sign Up for free, please click here....

Sexual Health - Men Message Board
Post New Thread   Closed Thread
LinkBack Thread Tools
Old 09-18-2005, 11:15 AM   #1
Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 9
glowxbabyxglow HB User
unable to ejaculate...normal/can i change that?

well the thing is, my boyfriend is unable to ejaculate from a blowjob. he says it feels really good and that's not the problem, it's just that he feels there's "not enough pressure/friction" in a blowjob for him to get all the way. he says he's talked to friends who are the same. i have no problem with continuing to try but we've tried it many different ways now and he still enjoys it but can't ejaculate. with a combined blowjob/handjob or just handjob he can just fine, same with intercourse, it just seems to be this one area. i've told him to tell me what to do and if i can change anything but he says i'm not doing anything wrong it's just the way it is. it's not a big issue and has never caused any problems but i would like to be able to make him orgasm from that alone if it's does anyone have this problem and/or ideas? thanks in advance.

Sponsors Lightbulb
Old 09-18-2005, 01:30 PM   #2
Senior Veteran
Join Date: Nov 2002
Location: Ontario, Canada
Posts: 5,418
Thisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB UserThisby HB User
Re: unable to ejaculate...normal/can i change that?

That problem certainly isn't a first on these boards. Some guys just don't get the stimulation they need. The fact that he's told you there isn't enough pressure or friction should tell you everything you need. A mouth just isn't the same as a hand or vagina and if he needs it a certain way, that's just the way it is.

I wouldn't put any pressure on him to keep trying. If he's fine not finishing with oral, then let it go. Just let him know you're more than willing to try, should he want to.

Sponsors Lightbulb
Old 09-20-2005, 05:28 PM   #3
Join Date: Jul 2005
Posts: 9
glowxbabyxglow HB User
Re: unable to ejaculate...normal/can i change that?

thanks for your input. it's never caused any issues with us, as long as he's happy i'm happy. and he knows i'm willing to keep trying, just for interest's sake. hey, who would say no to a two-hour blowjob?
it's just something i'd like to be able to do for him, if it were possible. thanks again.

Old 09-20-2005, 08:14 PM   #4
Join Date: May 2005
Posts: 405
ethera HB User
Re: unable to ejaculate...normal/can i change that?

If you give them more often, he'll get used to the feel, and he will reach orgasm.

When my wife first started giving me oral sex, the sensation itself didn't seem as intense as intercourse, but I soon started enjoying her oral stimulation very much; for me it wasn't just the sensation, but also the visual/audible aspect of it.

Last edited by ethera; 09-20-2005 at 08:15 PM.

Closed Thread

Similar Threads
Thread Thread Starter Board Replies Last Post
Unable to Ejaculate but never had a problem in the past TheatrePatron Sexual Health - Men 3 12-28-2009 06:32 AM
Unable to ejaculate 6 hours later bobbert Sexual Health - Men 4 12-02-2008 09:53 AM
Unable to Ejaculate? Why won't the semen come out? bocajack Sexual Health - Men 2 11-29-2008 02:13 AM
Unable to ejaculate during sex but I can during masturbation. Woodie6288 Sexual Health - Men 3 09-29-2008 05:34 PM
Unable to Ejaculate FLFLman Sexual Health - Men 6 02-29-2008 10:51 AM

Thread Tools

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is Off
HTML code is Off
Trackbacks are Off
Pingbacks are Off
Refbacks are Off

Sign Up Today!

Ask our community of thousands of members your health questions, and learn from others experiences. Join the conversation!

I want my free account

All times are GMT -7. The time now is 02:09 PM.

Site owned and operated by HealthBoards.comô
Terms of Use © 1998-2015 HealthBoards.comô All rights reserved.
Do not copy or redistribute in any form!