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Old 09-18-2005, 09:41 PM   #1
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Question I sabotage myself.....I masturbate

What a problem!
These days, I don’t have time to meet new women. I have females I can be intimate with, but I’m not really interested in them. There’s no connection, no romance. Even if there was I have no time right now, I’m making a sacrifice (6-12months) to finish what I’m doing.
I get 7 hours of sleep, the rest of the day I’m busy.
I COULD NEVER STUDY AT HOME, I HAVE TO GO TO THE LIBRARY OR THE PARK TO STUDY.
Why? Because when I’m home all I could do is masturbate!,
I deleted all the porn from my pc, trashed the DVD’s…and still I cant control it. Its like I sabotage myself.
Today for example I had to study, I couldn’t go to the park, the library was closed. I came home to study and it didn’t happen.
What is the deal, I’m not happy with this.

Commend on this. What do you guys think?

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Old 09-19-2005, 03:43 AM   #2
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Re: I sabotage myself.....I masturbate

take ssri's.

 
Old 09-19-2005, 05:58 AM   #3
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Re: I sabotage myself.....I masturbate

Hi....If you masturbate daily that is not really a problem.Some people masturbate 2 or 3 times a day , but then they miss a day as well.Everyone is different on how they release there tension.You seem to have the problem of masturbating just for the sake of doing it.

It appears that you have got yourself into the habit of masturbating because your that use to doing it ,that its an easy excuse to get your mind off other things you need to be doing.You say you need to study but as you cannot get focused on it , you turn your mind to other thoughts.

In regards to masturbating you most likely will not beable to go cold turkey and completely stop.Your better to just cut down on how many times a day you do it.For example you may do it once in the morning before you get up then dont do it again before you go to sleep that night.Try and hold out though the middle of the day and start doing your studing and other things you need to get done.So far you have been trying as you say you deleted all your porn and trashed your DVD collection.What you need to do now is keep your mind off sex and stop thinking about masturbating.Its tuff to start with but as each day passes you should beable to cut down on this habit and do other things you need to do.
Good luck and im sure you can beat this problem with your will power......

 
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Re: I sabotage myself.....I masturbate

I've been divorced for a while, my wife was really hot ( looks, body, voice ), and I haven't yet found anyone to replace her ( I really miss doing things to her ). The only thing that gets my mind off her is porn. Then, sometimes I wind up fantasizing about her anyway while masturbating to ejaculation.

I've had the same problem, masturbating, being sexual, distracted by sex/porn when I should have been studying.

I always need time afterward before going out because I'd be worried that I'd smell like semen, or look really worn out.


I think studying at the park or library is an excellent idea.

Stay out of your living quarters as much as possible. Take food with you, if spending is a concern ( it is for me ).

That's what I plan to do.


Good Luck To You

Last edited by ethera; 09-19-2005 at 09:35 PM.

 
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