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Old 10-25-2005, 10:33 PM   #1
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Arrow normal amount of masturbation?

ughh.... let me revise this post since the last one was deleted.
my boyfriend masturbates 1, sometimes 2 times per day... i never thought anything of it, until recently i've been feeling in competition with his hands!! is this considered abnormal to masturbate this often? someone even suggested that he is on his way to a porn addiction.... i don't really think this is the case, but does anyone have any input???

 
Old 10-26-2005, 05:43 AM   #2
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Re: normal amount of masturbation?

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ughh.... let me revise this post since the last one was deleted.
my boyfriend masturbates 1, sometimes 2 times per day... i never thought anything of it, until recently i've been feeling in competition with his hands!! is this considered abnormal to masturbate this often? someone even suggested that he is on his way to a porn addiction.... i don't really think this is the case, but does anyone have any input???
Hey,
Well, I'm a female and I can masterbate up to three times a day or go a week without it. I think masterbation is healthy and I don't watch porn. I have a boyfriend as well, he's a truck driver so he's on the road all week. But even before I was with him, I masterbated like that. I don't know why someone is suggesting that he's on his way to porn addiction, just because you masterbate, does not mean that you're a porn freak. I would suggest that you talk to him about that subject if it worries you. Hope this could be of help. -Crystal

 
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Old 10-26-2005, 12:53 PM   #3
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Re: normal amount of masturbation?

Am I assuming correctly that he is watching porn when he masturbates?
Does he neglete your desires because of this?

 
Old 10-26-2005, 04:11 PM   #4
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Re: normal amount of masturbation?

well, i'm not usually around when he masturbates, but i'm pretty sure he uses porn.....

we currently live in the same dorm, and we have for awhile, and we've never had tons of sex, but i've been feeling a little.. neglected lately, in this department. we cuddle over TV each night, and we're usually too tired at night to engage in anything, but i always feel that i give wayyy more than i get, even in terms of massages, signs of affection, etc. he's always been like this, and i don't want to change the person he is (that's who i'm in love with, right??) but it's almost like why go and masturbate when he knows that i would please him... and i know he likes it!!

i don't know.... i just don't know how i'd bring it up, because it could be turned around that i should be more aggressive, but it's just getting frustrating, as i don't masturbate myself very often, usually because i'm hoping that maybe he'll help me out later on at night!! how would you want a girl to bring this up to you, if you were on my boyfriend's end?? any suggestions of what i should do, verbal or nonverbal???

 
Old 10-26-2005, 04:36 PM   #5
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Re: normal amount of masturbation?

If your quite sure that he watches porn, maybe you could suggest that both of you watch a porn movie and get involved with what your watching and make some moves or start some conversation like " why don't we try that", and see what happens. I get the feeling that your very frustrated right now and need some reaction from him. Go for it and Good Luck!!

 
Old 10-26-2005, 04:39 PM   #6
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Re: normal amount of masturbation?

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well, i'm not usually around when he masturbates, but i'm pretty sure he uses porn.....

we currently live in the same dorm, and we have for awhile, and we've never had tons of sex, but i've been feeling a little.. neglected lately, in this department. we cuddle over TV each night, and we're usually too tired at night to engage in anything, but i always feel that i give wayyy more than i get, even in terms of massages, signs of affection, etc. he's always been like this, and i don't want to change the person he is (that's who i'm in love with, right??) but it's almost like why go and masturbate when he knows that i would please him... and i know he likes it!!

i don't know.... i just don't know how i'd bring it up, because it could be turned around that i should be more aggressive, but it's just getting frustrating, as i don't masturbate myself very often, usually because i'm hoping that maybe he'll help me out later on at night!! how would you want a girl to bring this up to you, if you were on my boyfriend's end?? any suggestions of what i should do, verbal or nonverbal???
My advice, don't settle for less. If you like affection and attention, I think you should find a guy that's going to give it to you. If you love him and want to stay with him..nonverbal wise I would say just go for it, make the first moves. Verbally..don't put it on him, let him know how you feel and what you want, but don't make it like it's all his fault.

 
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