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Old 01-01-2006, 05:04 PM   #1
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Retarded Ejaculation

Can anyone offer me advice on this problem, my partner has retarded ejaculation, I don't feel upset by it but I would like to understand it, as the problem is not just related to intercourse but also to masterbation by himself and me. He has a high sex drive. does anyone have any advice.

 
Old 01-02-2006, 10:08 PM   #2
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

What do you mean by retarded ejaculation? Do you mean retrograde ejaculation, where he ejaculates, but it goes backward into the bladder? Or, delayed ejaculation... perhaps he needs additional stimulation, maybe of the scrotum? Or do you mean premature ejaculation, where he ejaculates too quickly... there are ways he can train himself to become less sensitive, and last longer. One way is to go until he knows he is going to ejaculate, and then stop... squeeze the base of the penis, wait a few seconds until the feeling has subsided some, and then start back up. He can also try a product called Maintain, which numbs his penis a little and will allow him to last longer; or he can wear a condom, or double up on a latex condom to lessen sensitivity. Then when he is ready to ejaculate, he can take off one or both (if you are both in a serious relationship).

Perhaps you can clarify "retarded ejaculation" and we can try to help better. Otherwise, maybe the above might be of some help.

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Old 02-16-2006, 05:38 AM   #3
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

[URL=http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/001954.htm]Retarded Ejaculation[/URL] and Delayed Ejaculation are the same, the inability to ejacualate.
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Old 02-16-2006, 07:30 AM   #4
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

Retarded ejaculation??! We call that retarded? Oh good god.

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Old 02-16-2006, 08:34 AM   #5
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

I can't believe you 2 don't understand what retarded ejaculation is. This is still English, right? Time for the dictionary, guys...

cspence, is your partner on any medication, or have any medical conditions?

 
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

It is when a man takes a very long time to ejaculate, so long that his partner has lost her lubrication, and sex is painfully raw. Too much time can be as bad as too little, or worse.

 
Old 02-16-2006, 10:27 AM   #7
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

Possibly, he isn't aroused enough before entering. Paradoxically, this can lead to PREMATURE ejaculation too! My suggestion: get him very aroused, either by manual or oral stimulation, before he goes in. Hopefully, the timing will be right. And tell him to relax, not worry, just enjoy: performance anxiety is probably the culprit, unless he also takes forever when masturbating ...

 
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Re: Retarded Ejaculation

This is a serious problem, as far as impacting the sex lives. I'm not sure what causes it, but it's not necessarily performance anxiety. It might be a hormonal imbalance. I am sure a urologist, or a urologist and an endocrinologist, could figure it out.

 
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