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Old 01-15-2006, 04:35 PM   #1
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Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

I have a question.. when my husband and I have sex he doesnt always have an orgasm even though he tries, is this normal? or Is there something wrong with me why he cant? If he masturbates he always gets off? Anyone heard of this?

 
Old 01-15-2006, 06:55 PM   #2
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Re: Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

How long is it between him masturbating and having sex. I find that if I masturbate too soon before sex, I sometimes have trouble ejaculating during sex.
It may also have to do with age.

The last thought I have is his sensitive spot. Like women have a G-spot, men have a similar spot which is extra sensitive. This is right under the head of the penis.

If you are using lots of lubrication, or if you find you are well lubricated by yourself, it may be enough that he's sliding in and out, without much actual rubbing on the sensitive spots on the penis...

How do you rectifiy this? well I'd research on the net for various positions that would give him ultimate pleasure. Trust me, you tell your husband you have 5 new positions you want to try, he'll look like a kid in a candy store.

If that doesn't work, why not try to get him closer to sexual readiness. Try masturbating him or if you're ok with it, performing oral sex on him. However don't get him off this way, just enough that he's "half way there" then try having sex. See if that works..

hope that helps.

 
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Old 01-15-2006, 11:49 PM   #3
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Re: Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

Hes only 29 so I dont think it would be an age problem.. Except he does travel with business alot so it makes him away from home for sometimes two weeks time and he masturbates frequently so Im wondering if that is his problem..

 
Old 01-16-2006, 07:40 AM   #4
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Re: Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

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Originally Posted by Denise98
Hes only 29 so I dont think it would be an age problem.. Except he does travel with business alot so it makes him away from home for sometimes two weeks time and he masturbates frequently so Im wondering if that is his problem..
Most likely this is the problem. His body is geting used to his hand instead of the vagina. Have him lay off all masturbation and he'll be normal again.

 
Old 01-16-2006, 10:51 AM   #5
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Re: Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

Denise98 - I'm sure its not because of you.

 
Old 01-16-2006, 11:23 AM   #6
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Re: Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

He is masturbating too much. Ask him to save himself for the real thing!

 
Old 01-16-2006, 01:57 PM   #7
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Re: Husband doesnt orgasm..help..

I have to agree with X5_DRIVER on this one. His body is used to the grip, when he is masturbating, and doesn't react to the subtler sensations of oral sex, and sex, as well as it used to. The problem isn't that he is masturbating. The problem is that, after becoming accustomed to masturbating, his body doesn't function as well with another person.

 
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