Originally Posted by thorpe
BUT, while he is telling you that it's uncomfortable or "painful" when you don't is a bit of an exaggeration. I am a guy, and I know that it can be a little uncomfortable to not have a "release" of any kind, I also know that it's not as big of a deal as he's making it sound. Its really not that bad.
I'm afraid it differs from person to person, i used to, and still occasionally do, suffer from the dreaded 'blue balls'. When i get it im in a lot of pain where i cant move for a good hour or so. I just need to sit down and drink a cold drink.
I know some other guys who got the same, whereas some others didn't. Like i said it differs, but let's not get carried away from the original post.
I agree with the last poster. You need to take your guy out more to public places. Go to friend's houses, go to the cinema etc. Dont just meet up at each others houses to 'watch a movie' etc.
It's all new for him and he will most probably die down a little soon, but again, you dont want sex to get boring do you?