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Old 01-26-2006, 06:30 PM   #1
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Early ejaculation

During intercourse with my wife, I can only last about 10 minutes after the initial penetration. Is there anything I can do to make me last longer? I have tried those desensitizing condoms, and they make it where I can't ejaculate at all. Any ideas?




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Old 01-27-2006, 06:33 AM   #2
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Re: Early ejaculation

10 minutes is about 4 minutes more than average. If you have that much control, you are doing fine. Just change positions before the inevitable, or switch to oral for a while.

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Old 01-27-2006, 02:35 PM   #3
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Re: Early ejaculation

Well you can use different techniques in order to control your ejaculating time. If you practice masturbating and right before feeling the sensation for ejaculation, you stop masturbating. This will give you added control of your system and should with time increase the amount of time you can go without ejaculating.

In addition, the sexual positions you do with your wife can put pressure on the crotch area. If pressure is high in that area, it will be harded to not ejaculate. I would suggest choosing positions that put no or little pressure on your penis. Specficially have her on top so you can just relax and have no pressure on your penis. Hope this helps.

 
Old 01-28-2006, 12:28 PM   #4
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Re: Early ejaculation

deep breathing and short breaks before reaching climax will help

 
Old 01-28-2006, 03:15 PM   #5
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Re: Early ejaculation

Why do you feel you need to go longer than 10 minutes? Does she need longer than that to reach orgasm vaginally, or is this some personal goal that you have. Most experienced men last 4 to 10 minutes, depending on various factors. If you spend time giving her oral, she may not nor really care to get much intercourse. Of course some women like the guy to go on and on, so if she is expecting you to last longer, then you should try to oblige her. Certainly, stopping and changing positions can help, using condoms, more frequenct sex and concentrating on solving a physics problem or something can help.

 
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