Hi. I'm a 33 yr old married guy who's been having a problem when it comes to sex recently with my wife. Lately on a few occasions, I haven't been able to get an erection right away when we'd get into it. Sometimes I would get one at first and lose it when we started because it looked as if she was uncomfortable in the position or something else was not right. Eventually, I'd manage to get one and keep one for the entire time we had sex.
I should be happy about that but I'm focusing on the problems I had at the beginning. I mean, we do end up having sex each time. Sometimes it just takes me a bit. This has only happened in the past month and a half or so and I do think it's some kind of performance anxiety because I get erections fine by myself and in the morning. I am very attracted to my wife as well.
Any ideas to solve this problem or am I being too hard on myself?