Trouble Maintaining an erection...
After just briefly reading these forums, I realized I'm far from alone. But let me get this off my chest since its been bothering me. I was with a girl for 4 years, when we first started being intimate, I remember having trouble getting an erection at all, which I attributed to stage fright and it only lasted about a week or so, after that I had no problems, EVER. This girl and i ended up getting engaged and about 8 months after our engagement I caught her cheating on me which ended that relationship... needless to say. Now to the current problem. I'm 23 years old, a healthy active guy. I've been seeing a new girl now for about 3 months and when we are messing around I have no trouble getting erect at all. The problems start either when I take my pants off or about a minute after insertion. Its no that I'm not attracted to her, as a matter of fact i'm more attracted to her than I've ever been to any girl in the past. This happens i'd say about 75% of the time. I can't figure it out. She obviously notices this and gets really upset because naturally she thinks its her. I insist that it isn't, but I feel like everytime she gets upset about it, it puts more pressure on me. I have no trouble getting aroused any other time, like when I masturbate, and I still wake up with an erection after REM sleep. I am trying to figure out if I'm psyching myself out or what. It is getting very frustrating because I really like this girl and I feel like this is ruining our relationship. Any advice at all?