20 yo male here...Good physical fitness...Limited sexual experience...No medication.
I am a frequent masterbater with a strange past.
Bascially up untill a year ago I used to masterbate by pushing my penis against my leg..and would ejaculate almost totally soft.
After a while I learnt to masterbate the proper way...and while I am not always 100% hard its a good improvement to being more normal.
BUT
Every time I masterbate I need to manually stimulate myself to an erection, and when with a girl guessing etc doesnt get me aroused unless I stimulate myself or she does for a while. And this is becoming a problem
Is this kind of thing common? Can it be overcome...Can I also train myself out of this as well?
Look im not sure how relevant this is because you havent masurbated against you leg for a while but i think you suffered from traumatic mastubatory syndrome (TMS). I think this may be causing some of your problems from previous experience.
goodluck
Rick
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Look im not sure how relevant this is because you havent masurbated against you leg for a while but i think you suffered from traumatic mastubatory syndrome (TMS). I think this may be causing some of your problems from previous experience.
goodluck
Rick
I think you may have posted me a helpful link...But a mod removed the link.
After googling "tms" and "Traumatic mastubatory syndrome" I came up with nothing