I'm currently dating a man in his 30's who is perfect in every way. The problem is that he has a difficult time climaxing. I would have no problem with this, except I think that maybe he could be unsatisfied with this.
Sometimes I think it's due to some medicine he takes at night with drowsy side effects. Other times though it's the same story without the med's
I'm certain he's absolutely in love with me... there's no question in that.. he's constantly expressing this in various ways. Of course I love him as well.
"spicing it up" is good advice.. but is there something else we could do? Any guys his age experiencing this? is this normal??
I've had this problem from time to time when my mind is too active and not into it quite enough, plus condoms robbing some of the feel to put me over the edge so to speak. If this is the case for him then one thing you might consider in terms of spicing it up would be to talk dirty to him. Not necessarily words even but just be more vocal about how good it feels, should be a turn on for him. Plus maybe he'd reciprocate as well and make it better for you.
If you don't already do this that is.
Medications can certainly have an impact. But, too, some men will not admit to masturbating. But, some just simply can't seem to have as many ejaculations as others. Some men will be able to come three times a day everyday, day after day, while other men need a day or two in between. Of course, boredom can sit in, and he can be distracted by other things, but that does not seem to be at issue her if he is paying lots of attention to you. Note that while achieving an orgasm is important for men, and for the ego of the woman, too, it is not really all that important. Women generally don't orgasm each time, so it shoud not really be any different if the man can't.