"bigger" than normal - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

skittles42 · 03-05-2006, 08:54 PM

I've never posted on this board before.. so hello everyone..

this weekend when I was with my boyfriend.. we had sex a couple of times.. and I SWEAR his penis was bigger than the last time we had sex a week earlier. It felt longer and wider.. the first couple of time he went inside.. IT HURT! I was like "holy crap?! what is going on?!". But I didn't complain. It felt like I was having sex for the very first time this weekend.. but it was NOT my first time.

What could have caused this? Any help would be great!!

sin-good · 03-06-2006, 02:09 PM

This is understandable. You have not had sex with him frequently enough to know the "range" of his erected size, and as you have witnessed, it can vary significantly. Obviously, this last time you really got him going! (Keep it up)

skittles42 · 03-06-2006, 08:16 PM

hmm.. Guess I never thought of it that way. It all makes sense now! Thanks!

Magnetic · 03-09-2006, 10:42 AM

Erect size can vary somewhat, but I would not think to such an extent that it would not hurt before and, all of a sudden, be so large as to hurt now. Did you notice any difference in his size or, as you said, did it just "feel" that way. Also, after several times in a day or two, you should have gotten used to him if you had had no problems before, and after several times his level of excitement should have normalized to more than he was the previous times.

Or, maybe you just weren't as well lubricated this time. Have you started any medications that might cause some vaginal dryness? Or maybe you were more tense this time. I don't know.

skittles42 · 03-10-2006, 09:19 AM

I did start taking Paxil 3 weeks ago, but since I started taking that we'd been together a few times before this incident.

During the whole weekend of this incident, it felt bigger. It wasn't just a one time occurence. I was well lubricated, as we always engage in fore play. He didn't look any bigger. I wasn't tense.. we've been together for a while now, and being with him physically and sexually is great.

But last night, I went to see him, and everything was back to normal. But it was unplanned.. There are things I can do to make him more turned on.. none of which I did last night... soo... Next time we are together, which will probably be this weekend, I will see if it happens again..