Originally Posted by lostboy8506
I see this board is an abundance of help....
Being flippant will not encourage people to answer your questions, be patient and polite. Perhaps it is your attitude causing your erection to go away?
However, reading your post again, and after other comments if it is just in your head then you might do well using a dose or two of viagra to get you over that stumbling block! Dont go for a big dose, take it about 5 or 10 minutes before it is likely that you will have intercourse. Even if you have one just before, you will be surprised how you feel - it will give your mind a boost and you will not be so concerned about staying hard.
If you can successfully have intercourse with this girl once or twice and it all goes well you can then try with half the does, then none!
It is quite normal to be nervous about it, and you will get over it if you dont let it become a huge stumbling block that just gets in the way for you. So dont dismiss using something like viagra to get you over the first hurdle!
It could help if you try it on your own to get used to the effects, but do not use it too often or you will end up relying on it and that will have had the opposite effect than the one you want.
Good luck, let us know how it goes...