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Old 05-30-2006, 11:06 AM   #1
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How long do most men last .....

how long does the average man last b4 reaching orgasm? I know a lot of factors can influence this but just an estimate time of an averagee married guy?

 
Old 05-30-2006, 02:43 PM   #2
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Re: How long do most men last .....

The average guy masturbating none stop lasts 150 seconds or just over 2 minutes. So with starting and stopping, a good quess is 5-10 minutes on average. It's best to do a lot of foreplay because once he gets going, it doesn't last that long for most guys.

 
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Old 05-30-2006, 04:13 PM   #3
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Re: How long do most men last .....

As you understand, there are a lot of variables. Many men will be able to reach orgasm within seconds if they want to. Most can control themselves better, but males with little experience and who aren't using condoms can literally ejaculate as they are first entering the vagina. I would guess that most married men will last from 3 to 6 minutes if they are not expressly trying to hold back, though some will only last a minute or less if they are excited. Now, if they are trying to hold back, they should be able to last longer, but goinging non-stop, it can be difficult unless they totally blank out their minds.

 
Old 05-31-2006, 10:39 AM   #4
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I couldn't really tell you what the "average" amount of time is. I'm pretty good at controlling myself during sex, I'm not sure why though. I guess it comes with experience.
I have off days though, sometimes if there a lot of foreplay I'll get overexcited and be done in a couple minutes. Other times it feels like after a certain point I just can't ejaculate any more.

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Old 06-02-2006, 05:50 AM   #5
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Re: How long do most men last .....

Don't know what a good "average" time would be. I can't seem to control it at all. As we cannot respond to surveys, let me just say, not long enough!

 
Old 06-06-2006, 08:06 AM   #6
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Re: How long do most men last .....

Wow

Im so happy i found this thread. I have always thought that my 5 - 15 minutes of actual rythmic sex was pretty pathetic (I think I was conditioned too much by porn when I was younger in thinking men last hours).

 
Old 06-07-2006, 06:49 AM   #7
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Re: How long do most men last .....

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Wow

Im so happy i found this thread. I have always thought that my 5 - 15 minutes of actual rythmic sex was pretty pathetic (I think I was conditioned too much by porn when I was younger in thinking men last hours).
Glad this made your day! BTW, I would be happy if I could last in that range!!

 
Old 06-07-2006, 07:52 AM   #8
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Re: How long do most men last .....

Tex5k. My situation in the past was far far different.

My current partner was my first and I was 18 when we started having sex. In my eyes I found her exceptionally attractive and found my tolerance would barely hold out a minute.

I think with age you get better. And having the same partner over a given amount of time you get used to what they do so things arenít as new and exciting so you can control the situation a lot easier.

I tried the whole exercising the muscle under the penis (not sure what its called) to gain more control but that didnít work for me.
Advice that can help from the word go that worked with me:

- Have a lot of foreplay before sex
- If you feel you are getting close think of things that will calm you down. I hate using the idea of thinking of your grandma but it does help!
- Stop and change positions. The action of stopping to change positions shouldnt bother her excessively and will give you time to regain yourself.
- DONíT build up your strokes to fast too quickly. Keep them real slow Ė only build them up to a reasonable pace when you are happy its time to climax.

 
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Re: How long do most men last .....

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Tex5k. My situation in the past was far far different.

My current partner was my first and I was 18 when we started having sex. In my eyes I found her exceptionally attractive and found my tolerance would barely hold out a minute.

I think with age you get better. And having the same partner over a given amount of time you get used to what they do so things arenít as new and exciting so you can control the situation a lot easier.

I tried the whole exercising the muscle under the penis (not sure what its called) to gain more control but that didnít work for me.
Advice that can help from the word go that worked with me:

- Have a lot of foreplay before sex
- If you feel you are getting close think of things that will calm you down. I hate using the idea of thinking of your grandma but it does help!
- Stop and change positions. The action of stopping to change positions shouldnt bother her excessively and will give you time to regain yourself.
- DONíT build up your strokes to fast too quickly. Keep them real slow Ė only build them up to a reasonable pace when you are happy its time to climax.

Thanks for the advice!

 
Old 06-07-2006, 09:31 AM   #10
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Re: How long do most men last .....

As mentioned, so many things can affect orgasm & ejaculation; foreplay, lubrication, arrousal, etc. Finally, who times having a wonderful, pleasurable time with someone you love.

 
Old 06-07-2006, 09:42 AM   #11
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Re: How long do most men last .....

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...Finally, who times having a wonderful, pleasurable time with someone you love.
Um, when you feel you don't last long enough!

 
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