Premature Ejaculation - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

chicken84 · 05-31-2006, 11:47 AM

Hey guys,

Quick question for ya. My best friend is dating this guy and she has told me that he ejaculates during foreplay and he does not get an erection again after. We are not sure if he can't get one or just doesn't. They stop fooling around once he ejaculates. They have just started fooling around and we are wondering if this is happening just because she is someone new and what she has to offer is new, or if this will be a problem. He is also my boyfriends bestfriend and close with me. He has only been with 4 women before her. Any advice or information on this would be appriciated!

Thanks guys

Wzs99 · 05-31-2006, 05:15 PM

Has he always had this problem? premature ejaculations is common in the beggining of any relationships. Ussually the guy needs to feel comfortable with the new partner and just have sex a few times to better control his ejaculations. Of course this alone wont solve hes misfiring unit.

Ussualy changing the rhythim of hes breathe from shallow to deeper into the lower abdomen helps.Also make sure hes bladder is empty and that he does not have sex within 30 mins after using the bathroom or else his prostate nerves will be too sensitive.

hope this helps

n64play · 06-01-2006, 01:14 PM

what age is he? Personally I've found I last much longer now I'm a little older. He needs to relax as well, this can greatly affect how long he lasts.

tex5k · 06-02-2006, 06:44 AM

Some of us do have that problem (PE). He could try satisfying her with oral before intercouse. Besides he's more likely to give her an orgasm from oral!

chicken84 · 06-02-2006, 09:19 AM

make sure hes bladder is empty and that he does not have sex within 30 mins after using the bathroom or else his prostate nerves will be too sensitive.

I never knew that!! Thank you a ton, yes that does help alot, and he is 20. So still pretty young :P

They have not even had sex yet, they are still only fooling around right now. I have told her what you all said and she thanks you a ton, it is very helpful info