Going down on him - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

FUNNEWFIE · 06-08-2006, 04:14 PM

I was just wondering I have been with my man for 18 years and our sex life is great but what I'm wondering is how to give oral sex with out gagging I have a very weak gag reflex. I don't like to give oral sex and he doesn't really ask because he respectsts my decision but I would like to maybe every now and again do it for him because he pleases me quiet well. I definetly won't swallow because I would for sure toss my cookies any suggestions or comments would be welcome. I am not asking really how to do oral just wanting to know how not to gag.....

SpunkyStuart · 06-08-2006, 06:12 PM

Whilst not being sure what "tossed my cookies" is, the best way of not gagging is not to let the penis go too far into the mouth beofre your gag reflex cuts in. You can also help to prevent this and go deeper if you are in a position where the penis is better lined up with your mouth and throat so that it goes in further before you feel any gag reflex.

Also you do not have to deep throat your guy to give good head, most of his sensitivity is around his glans and it will be good for him if you just use your mouth and tongue and dont worry about getting it deep into your throat.

HTH

Samisunrider · 06-09-2006, 04:37 AM

If its the stuff that comes out that you hate try having him wear a condom.

beforeXdishonor · 06-09-2006, 06:08 AM

A good trick is to go only as far as you can, and use your hand in a masterbation sense for the bottom end of it.

FUNNEWFIE · 06-09-2006, 08:50 AM

Well thanks for all your help. "toss my cookies" means throw up. It doesn't matter how far I go it could be just the head and I gag. You know people who chew on straws well if I was to do that I gag. Weird I know. Did you ever hear of brushing your teeth or using mouth wash before oral it's suppose to really give ur man a way better experience. [deleted]