I feel weired posting this, I've never really talked about this sort of thing before, but I'm in a situation where I really need some advice.
I've been with my fiance for over 6 years now, but she's never given me oral.
Although I've hinted a couple of times, she seems to be disgusted at the idea. I've always wondered what it would be like, but have never really known how to come out and ask her straight out, knowing that she doesn't really like the idea.
I don't think she's ever given oral to anyone else, though then again I've never asked. I really don't think she has though. I was her first serious boyfriend, we then split up for a couple of years when I started at Uni and she had a couple of other boyfriends, then we got back together and have been living with each other for about 5 years and have a 1 year old daughter. But occasionally I do wonder if she has, and I start to feel quite jealous at the thought that she may have done this with someone else but won't with me. Stupid I know.
To be honest, anything new would be nice. Since she gave birth to our only child almost a year ago, she's not let my hands go down there, she said it feels "weird". I can't touch her nipples because they "tickle". All we do is kiss (just lips and neck usually, she doesn't like me going to far down), she then gives me a quick hand job, then its straight to it, same position every time. Altogether it probably lasts for about 10-15 minutes, then its off to sleep.
I wouldn't be without her (something I've realised more than ever recently when I spent a week away), and without wanting to sound big headed, I know she wouldn't want to be without me, she's always going on about marriage. I would never even think about pushing her into anything. Though she can be quite pushy on the marriage front
But I really feel we need to liven up our sex life somehow, even though she seems happy as it is. I'm 28, she's 23, so we are still young, but I feel that I'm missing out on a lot.
I would really appreciate any advice. To be honest, I'm embarrassed to ask her to give me oral, but I really would like to experience it at least once in my life. I'd offer to wear a condom if she wants, but if I try to kind of hint by joking about flavors, she just sounds disgusted by the idea. I don't want to sound like I'm pushing her into it.
Please, I need advice here...