| | Low libido misery
Hi, I hope someone can give me some advice as I am so unhappy I don't know what to do. A few months ago I met my girlfriend, she's cute, funny, loving and I could'nt be without her.
Things were going great until about a month ago when I suddenly lost my libido. I am usually very sexually motivated, with my sexual desire tending to go in waves, sometimes insatiable, other times less interested, but right now nothing turns me on, my long term fantasies no longer appeal to me, even watching sexy films which normally get me going no matter what don't interest me. My girlfriend is also quite sexually motivated and finding it very hard to cope with my lack of interest, naturally thinking it is her to blame no matter how much I reassure her. It's totally ruined my life and I'm near to tears.