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Old 07-26-2006, 11:35 AM   #1
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Can anybody shed some light on this subject?Does watching shemale porn make U gayorbi

(I posted this topic at first in a reply to NedFlanders question but I think that thread might be too old.)I was Googling almost this same topic when I came across this board. I am much older than you but I found myself asking almost the same question. I mean I know for a fact I wouldnt consider myself gay by any stretch of the term. And that having been around long enough with plenty of varied sexual experiences with different women in different situations I have never had anything close to any homosexual experiences. I lost my virginity when I was 16 almost 17. And whenever Ive ever been approached like that or actually hit on by a dude or something I pretty much have always been like thanks but "Im cool man". Its not something I would actually want to do. But where Im confused is I get off to Shemales online. The first time I can recall getting off to this stuff was after progressing from reading Playboy at 12 to Penthouse and advancing on to Hustler around 21 where eventually I noticed they started having Shemale advertisements and Pictures in the back. To me it was just so wild and taboo I couldnt help but look. Even Active Duty in a Unit with some hardcore dudes I can remember guys clowning like a buddy telling our E-7 look there goes your girlfriend pointing at a shemale in some magazine and everybody laughing, but Im also thinking damn shes kinda sexy in those fishnets and platform high heels and garters and stuff(or whatever sexy lingerie she was wearing which they always are). I had buddy's that liked the big muscular wrestling chick Chyna when she posed in Playboy but to me she was disgusting or ugly(Especially since Ive seen her on VH1s Surreal Life show with big muscular veiny feet) I realize I love little women with pretty lil toes I can suck and sexy red nail polish... But the key is having everything soft and no muscles clearly defined. Like with shemales I hate to see shemales who have the muscular man legs that turns me off for some reason more than her male parts. But even in genetic women like Whitney Houston it turns me off when I can see her bicep muscle especially and shes crackhead skinny. I like really soft women usually, small and Tara Reids size or womanly like Angelina Jolie. Although I really dont like the way Hollywood chicks are all super thin now or the ones who look like they work out every day. I like real girl next door types or even in the mature types I like women not Barbie dolls or weightlifters just regular women who you could meet in real life. Im doing a lot of writing because I really want everybody here to get a good picture hopefully so they can give me some good feedback without misunderstanding me.

I have always really loved women; I only have fantasy's or romantic interest in genetic women i.e. thinking of holding or kissing or one day settling down with. I finished my time in the Army (13F) got divorced and have been stuck in my parents house recovering from an injury for the last year. Only going out to the hospital once or twice a month. Ive found myself frequently enjoying trans gendered porn. Being reasonably intelligent I realize we as human beings can get off to many different things and dont have to label ourselves accordingly such as I also get off watching hen-tai, or anime, BDSM, zoo-sex, watersports, and many other things I'm pretty certain I would never seek out or actually do in the real world.(I know I can stick my thing in a pie and get off but I wouldnt call myself pie-curious.) I believe posing this topic to such an open mixed and knowledgeable community as exist here I can get a good understanding of how different people see this. I would be grateful for all and any responses I know its not the most PC?"

P. S. 2 all HealthBoard.com members: Another thing for me is the proliferation of Shemale stuff everywhere online It seems like theres more Shemale Porn than anything else nowadays. If I go to any frees site theres always these links or pop ups with Shemale sex. If I go to popular Top Gallery Post like greenguy or something and Im getting off on interracial porn there might be 50 free pics or movies clips which I browse through pretty quick before I have to go somewhere else to find more links to free interracial clips but then half of those are the same ones I just watched with only a few new or different clips. But for the Shemale Porn theres just tons of it you can go from tgp, to she male galleries, to Trans movie clips, to page, after page of the stuff. Squirters have 1 or 2 pages of clips before you hit a wall and realize youve basically seen all the free stuff thats available on the net for that day. The same with Latin chicks, theres a lot of Asian chicks but then you eventually end up getting the links or pop ups to the Asian Lady-boys and your back to square 1. I know this is a lot and it sounds crazy but being stuck inside the house is really messing with my head. I dont talk to anybody except my elderly old skool retired parents who are from the country. (Although I Can tell them about some girls and drunken nights out and share some pretty funny stories and laugh and stuff theyre still my parents who I cant even curse in front of). Since Ive been home I havent really talked to anybody cool, just nurses and my doctor in that quick hospital type chit chat. I never IM, Ive never been in a chat room and although I think I know where I stand I just really wonder what other peoples opinion would be? I just wonder is it possible for a straight heterosexual Mans-man/Macho, badass type which I have always considered myself to be, to think a she male is sexy or hot. & If I can think shes is hot or banging with a dope body or crazy eyes or whatever; is it gay or bi-curious to like watching her get freaky. To watch her shaking her phatass or squeezing up her big titties? For me its a lot of things really, and Im trying to finish this but I think also that some of the crazy freaky sex is so dirty or taboo that its erotic, its hot. I know gay people can be cool and I dont have nothing against no one but I dont think Im gay or even bi-curious. For example I wouldnt kiss a dog but when I watch a hot chick "kissing" a dog online its hot but I would never kiss that chick in real life or even drink from the same beer shes drinking out of. Can You guys add me into this discussion and give me your thoughts on this? I would really appreciate it.

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Old 07-27-2006, 09:35 AM   #2
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Re: Can anybody shed some light on this subject?Does watching shemale porn make U gayorbi

As you have seen on the web, there are a lot of people looking at shemale porn. Since the gay population is likely between 3 and 10%, there are a whole lot more than gay guys looking at shemale porn. Few will talk about it, because it is considered taboo, but that doesn't mean they aren't enjoying it. My buddy who likes it considers himself 100% straight.

 
Old 07-27-2006, 04:46 PM   #3
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Hello Dave: (I posted my reply under another thread 'am I gay" before I saw this thread, heres the same with some additional stuff at the end.

Thanks for all that info you put up there, reminded me a lot about myself. Well here's my story. I think we all graduate from one level of sexual experimentation to another. I never thought Id ever ever have sex with a penis or even fantasise about one. I used to be and still am attracted to mature women, especially if they have a "LARGE ****" the first time i saw a pic of a shemale (very feminine face,hands and legs) in some porn mag, i was repulsed by it, but as days passed, i began to find it cute and I actually started fantasising [deleted] For me it wasn't a man, it was "a women with something extra." Sex with a real man would absolutely turn me off, even if he just made a pass at me, it wouldn't work.
But as time passed i went into chatrooms, talked to a lot of people online. I was looking to chat with and get off with a mature woman which I did quite frequently, and I was also approached by a lot of men too. The men would want to do me, they would masturbate while talking to me and some of them would invite me to watch them on cam. Very interestingly I began to enjoy the power I had over them. A lot of these men would actually pretend to be women online and would only reveal their true selves after a lot of talking. [deleted]
When it comes to real sex, it would definitely be a woman. Even when I go out I am looking at women and not men. Ive never met a transexual in real life. Like you mentioned, Ive masturbated watching K9 and also Showers lots of times (there are other taboo stuff too, not mentioning here), but if it was happening right in front of me i would most probably be turned off.
So I think, it's only a matter of time before we change. I dont call myself gay, maybe I am bi, but then I dont call myself bi either, I wont know until I actually try it out, as of now, doing it with a man in real life is an absolute no, with a transexual - maybe , with a Female Bodybilider - I'd love to, but again I'll never know until I actually try it out, and we all change as time passes, for some people the change comes about fast, for others it may take a while.
So does fantasising make us gay/bi? does it really matter? It's not like we have to to go on TV and make an anouncement in public right? From what I heard from a friend who is a nurse is that if they have a dick, they are technically 'Men' further a woman's **** really is a miniature dick, I would hate calling myself gay or even bi, cos I want to be considered "Normal" so I say I'm straight, but what I am fantasising about really is gay/bi sex. The only thing left for me is to actually do it, I guess i'll have to wait till the time comes, besides change it always taking place in everything and everybody, like Rocky Stallone told the russians "Everybody can Change". Only time will tell to what extent we change. Looking forward to hear from you again. Thanks for reading.

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Old 07-28-2006, 10:43 AM   #4
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Thanks for taking the time to shed some light on the subject. What you guys said really makes alot of sense. I shouldve realised watching NASCAR or playing NASCAR videogames or fantasizing about being a NASCAR driver dosent make me a NASCAR driver; not even a bad one or a NASCAR driver in the closet or "garage" it just makes me a cripple who plays NASCAR games and has fantasies of being a NASCAR driver. I really appreciate you guys taking the time and having the courage to answer what many consider to be a taboo topic. Let me say every little bit helps and hearing your opinions puts doubts to rest. I dont consider myself slow nieve or wishy washy but being isolated really has a way of making a man question himself. This I sometimes feel is worse or just as bad as a prison sentence. Sometimes I forget things I had anylzed and understood or came to a conclusion on years ago or I doubt the validity of the answers I came to. I wouldnt consider myself gay by any stretch; whenever Ive ever been approached like that or actually hit on by a dude or something I pretty much have always been like thanks but "Im cool man". Its not something I would actually want to experience or "just try" (like I know I dont need to try caviar to know I wouldn't like it). (I rewote the original question and if anyone if else has an opinion they think would be helpful for me and Nedflanders I would really appreciate hearing from you). But, where Im confused is I get off to Shemales online. The first time I can recall getting off to this stuff was after progressing from reading Playboy at 12 to Penthouse and advancing on to Hustler around 21 where eventually I noticed they started having Shemale advertisements and Pictures in the back. To me it was just so wild that the girl looked so sexy but it was genetically a guy with his thing out it a straight magazine, and I was feeling a little offended or actually betrayed, but even though it was taboo or it might have felt wrong I still couldnt help but look. Even Active Duty in a Unit with some hardcore dudes I can remember guys clowning like a buddy telling our E-7 look there goes your girlfriend pointing at a shemale in some magazine and everybody laughing, but Im also thinking damn shes kinda sexy. Now I had buddy's that liked the big muscular wrestling chick Chyna when she posed in Playboy but to me she was ugly (especially since Ive seen her on VH1s Surreal Life show with big muscular veiny feet). Like with shemales I hate to see shemales who have the muscular man legs that turns me off for some reason more than her male parts. But even in genetic women like Whitney Houston it turns me off when I can see her bicep muscle especially and shes crackhead skinny. I like really soft women usually, small and Tara Reids size or womanly like Angelina Jolie. Although I really dont like the way Hollywood chicks are all super thin now or the ones who look like they work out every day. I like real girl next door types or even in the mature types I like women not Barbie dolls or weightlifters just regular women who you could meet in real life. Im doing a lot of writing because I really want everybody here to get a good picture hopefully so they can give me some feedback from understanding. Because I got some helpful opinions but I figure the better you explain the situation the better you can understand and feedback. Another thing for me is the proliferation of Shemale stuff everywhere online It seems like theres more Shemale Porn than anything else nowadays. If I go to any frees site theres always these links or pop ups with Shemale sex.
I know this is a lot and it sounds crazy but being stuck inside the house is really messing with my head. I dont talk to anybody except my elderly old skool retired parents who are from the country. (Although I Can tell them about some girls and drunken nights out and share some pretty funny stories and laugh and stuff theyre still my parents who I cant even curse in front of). Since Ive been home I havent really talked to anybody cool, just nurses and my doctor in that quick hospital type chit chat. I never IM, Ive never been in a chat room and although I think I know where I stand lately Im just really wondering what other peoples opinion would be? (Sometimes I also feel and worry that Im loosing the ability to just communicate or carry on a normal conversation with someone in real life my own age or upwardly mobile)... I just wonder is it possible for a straight heterosexual man to think a she male is sexy or hot. &Can You guys humor me just a little more and give me your additional thoughts on this? I would really appreciate it.

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