Well this is embarrasing for me, since I like to masturbate alot, but, sometimes, I stick things up my backside, for hightened pleasure. But.. usually it's small stuff, like small dildos, but im wondering, I felt my stomach clinch a bit this last time, and I did nothing to damage anything, my question is, can sticking things up your backside, damage anything?
It can, if it is sharp. Other than that, the only worry is if the bottom of it is not bigger than the top. You don't want to lose anything you can't retrieve.
That's why it helps to have a ***** with a larger base, or something of that nature. Enjoy. This is really nothing to worry about. Lots of people, men and women, straight and gay, enjoy anal stimulation.
Hey, good for you realising and doing something about what the majority of straight males are missing - that is the fact that the anus contains thousands of erogenous nerve endings that give immense pleasure!
Also inside the male rectum there is of course the prostate. A source of additional pleasure that gay men have been taking advantage of for years!
So please go ahead and enjoy it, if you want to insert stuff in there make sure that you try to do the following:
NEVER insert a glass bottle or anything made of glass or something that may break. This is a NO NO! Ever, Never!
Use nicely shaped items, you will get more pleasure from something that does not hurt you!
If you want to use things like carrots or similar, put a condom on them so that anything nasty on the vegetable is not transferred into you (bugs, desease etc!)
Use plenty of a good waterbased lube, mostly you can never have too much!
Make sure that you are sensible about hygene in terms of not getting anything from your anus near or into things like your eyes (by rubbing for instance) or near your penis especially your urethra (this could give you cistisys or worse)
Apart from that be sensible, try to make sure that you cannot "loose" the item inside you cos a trip to the hospital is very embarrasing!
A carrot is not a good idea because it can slip all the way in. And once inside an object can change its tilt (because of the shape of your colon) and get caught on the inside of the tailbone, making it impossible for you to push it out. Stick to a *****, which is made with a wide base to avoid this.
doesnt mean your gay at all, many straight guys like a finger in there while being orally stimulated. dont use vegetables or any of the sort, or glass. just think about what the concequences could be. go to a sex shop and buy a *****. say its for a gag gift if your too embarrased to go purchase one. have fun hitting the a spot!!! great orgasm
A word of caution: if you decide to buy a *****, don't go for a porny-sized one. If you aren't used to anal stimulation, the experience could be unpleasantly painful. They come in different lengths and thicknesses ... so err on the smaller side! And go easy when inserting, whatever the size. (And always use plenty of lube)
Thanks for all of your encouraging replies!
On that note I have one last question, again very well.. akward.. for me to talk about..
I bought a ***** last week, and before I masturbated, I went to the bathroom. Not all of the stuff* got out becuase I was horribly constipated.. uhm. Anyways, I decided to go ahead and stick the ***** up my backdoor, but I felt something feel like it moved. Is it possible that the stuff* that didn't get out got pushed back up? And should I be concerned? I am sort of afraid now.
It is all about the geography of the area - the colon feeds stools down which get delivered by the rectum when you have a movement. If you are a bit constipated then the rectum gets full as well. So when you try to clear the bowels you may only clear the rectum.
You probably need to get a good regular pattern going so that you move your bowels every day -- and for this a good diet with plenty of yawn yawn yes you know all about fibre and stuff!!!!
So yes the answer to your question is of course you can get the ***** into contact with your undelivered stools! That is why it is a good idea to use a condom on the item that you put up there, so you can keep it clean.
You may have gone and bought a huge ***** that is too long of course, and it is going a good distance up your rectum and into the begining of your colon. That is why it is worth experimenting with items that are a similar size or shape to a ***** or penis before you go and buy the anal intruder!
Last edited by Mod-S4; 08-28-2006 at 09:46 PM.
As with most things to do with the rectum, you have to be careful, and if it hurts that is a pretty good indicator that you may be going a bit far, or that you should go a bit easy. To help you make it easier try giving yourself an enema, which will make more room. It will benefit you not to be constipated, and then there is less chance of any pain or damage.
Last edited by Mod-S4; 08-29-2006 at 08:54 AM.
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Why not use a real Penis? They say don't knock it until you've tried it. There are plenty of men out there who have used both methods and seem to have a ball, so to speak. Other than that, a ***** is best, with balls.