ED and He doesn't like to be touched
My husband & I have been married 7 years. He is 58 and I am 47. Since we married he has had ED. He was single for a long time, about 30 years. I am concerned by his lack of interest in physical contact. He doesn't like to be touched and he doesn't like touching me. We kiss probably 3x a week, just quick ones. When I ask him for some affection he rolls his eyes and gives me a quick hug.
His only sexual interest is having an enima, which he says stimulates the prostrate. I don't particate in this practice with him anymore because I don't think of this practice as sex. I did try but I am totally turned off and mad that he likes "his bag" and won't try to enjoy foreplay with me.
At this point I am craving physical contact, a hug, a rub of the arm anything!
I have tried discussion but he only focuses on ED. I have tried convince him that touching and cuddling doesn't mean sexual intercourse.