erections in my 30s
I got this sort of a 'stage fright' situation w/ my girlfriend recently: I was aroused when we were making out and taking 1 another's clothes off. But when it was time to have sex and she wanted me inside her, I just couldn't get hard. After about 1/2 hr.(and being upset w/ myself), I finally got partly erect, and went into her. I was able to keep it for a while and it did get somewhat more erect; but even during the time, I felt it going soft while in there. She seemed to like how long it took for me to finally finish, but it was a lot of 'work' to stay erect and eventually have an orgasm; when I did have an orgasm, about 1/2-hr. had gone by.
The night before, she gave me really good oral. And I'm wondering if, in my early 30s, I possibly can't get or keep a solid erection the following night. (The times were 7 p.m. on 1st night, 11 p.m. on 2nd night.) Is it common to not be able to perform if I had an orgasm the night before?
I'm now sort of worried about the next time we do it.
Last edited by 32Pa.; 08-07-2006 at 09:55 AM.