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Old 08-23-2006, 02:25 AM   #1
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27 with a problem

hey everyone i'm new here. i have this problem here in the past two weeks me and my girlfriend everytime we try to have sex i will either get it up and it goes limp or it won't even get up its not the fact that i don't want to have sex with her trust me i do and i get so frustrated that it won't get up or it goes right back down trust me we use to have sex all the time she is even having my baby she's nine months now. i want to have sex with her its like i get horney and it either won't get up or goes right back down. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME??????

 
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Old 08-23-2006, 03:42 AM   #2
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Re: 27 with a problem

Baby worries? Not that you might get her pregnant, cos its too late for that but worries that you may hurt the baby, or worries about the impending arrival in a few months?

The penis often tells us things that the subconcious knows but we dont!

 
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Old 08-24-2006, 03:46 AM   #3
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Re: 27 with a problem

I had sex with my wife quite a few times while she was pregnant. Sometimes she initiated, sometimes I did. Of course you should be careful and gentle.

Have you seen a doctor about your "performance vs. interest" issues?

 
Old 08-26-2006, 03:12 PM   #4
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Re: 27 with a problem

no i haven't see a doctor yet i need to though

 
Old 08-27-2006, 07:56 AM   #5
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Re: 27 with a problem

No sex at 8 & 9 months

 
Old 08-27-2006, 08:22 AM   #6
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Re: 27 with a problem

Have some porn playing in your tv...for some reason porn can get your psychological part going.. and in turn make your penis erect. Seems when we are with a real girl, either because insecurities or something,the psychological part malfunctions and your mind fails to send messages to the penis. I've had this with girls.. but i discovered i can get really hard if i watch porn just a few minutes before we start doing something. well i didn't do it with any girlfriend cause i don't have one, just discovered this with strippers. They would perform some hot dance for me but my penis would remain limp. But if i'm bymyself just as soon as i watch porn, the penis goes erect and it's hard to bring it down. so i say it's all psychological.

 
Old 08-27-2006, 09:44 PM   #7
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Re: 27 with a problem

what do you mean no sex at 8 and 9 months

 
Old 08-27-2006, 09:47 PM   #8
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Re: 27 with a problem

what do you mean no sex after 8 and 9 months

 
Old 08-28-2006, 02:51 PM   #9
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You said she was 9 months pregnant. Lay off until the baby is born & then wait a few weeks for her to heal.

 
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