hey everyone i'm new here. i have this problem here in the past two weeks me and my girlfriend everytime we try to have sex i will either get it up and it goes limp or it won't even get up its not the fact that i don't want to have sex with her trust me i do and i get so frustrated that it won't get up or it goes right back down trust me we use to have sex all the time she is even having my baby she's nine months now. i want to have sex with her its like i get horney and it either won't get up or goes right back down. CAN SOMEONE HELP ME??????
Have some porn playing in your tv...for some reason porn can get your psychological part going.. and in turn make your penis erect. Seems when we are with a real girl, either because insecurities or something,the psychological part malfunctions and your mind fails to send messages to the penis. I've had this with girls.. but i discovered i can get really hard if i watch porn just a few minutes before we start doing something. well i didn't do it with any girlfriend cause i don't have one, just discovered this with strippers. They would perform some hot dance for me but my penis would remain limp. But if i'm bymyself just as soon as i watch porn, the penis goes erect and it's hard to bring it down. so i say it's all psychological.