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Old 09-14-2006, 05:35 PM   #1
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lasting TOO long?

Ok, I was with a good friend of mine the other nite, kinda a friends with benefits type thing...and it was good but he lasted wayy too long for me. I had already orgasmed three times, and he still wasn't close to climaxing...what should a girl do in situation like that? I was getting VERY tired, and was ready to just go to sleep...not to mention my vagina was starting to get sore from all the action. What should a girl do? I guess I could have gotten him off orally, but that probably would have taken alot longer and my mouth would have cramped after five minutes....I dunno, just wondering I guess.

 
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Old 09-16-2006, 12:33 PM   #2
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Re: lasting TOO long?

His problem is called "secondary impotence", which is a problem I have sometimes. Basically, it is his problem but it's nice of you to want to help. Here's a few thoughts:

At some point, of course, you can say "That was wonderful but it's all I can handle tonight". He'll probably understand. Contrary to what some men say, this will not cause him to die.

Men are given lots of socialization that it's rude for us to have an orgasm until the woman has had enough. So, at some point you might try saying "That's enough orgasms for me. I'm just going to relax and let's focus on your turn." Yelling "Come now, baby!" or something like that probably won't help, since he can't, and will just feel more pressured.

 
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