Originally Posted by Gjoe
it's a taoist technique used to achieve multiple orgasms. Check out "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" by Mantak Chia and Douglas Abrams....great book.
why i say don't ejacualte everyday. ejaculation is called "the little death" in tantra and it will completely wipe out your energy levels. kinda why you get tired after you finish...and why athletes wont have sex the night before a big game...smart ones anyways. it will drain energy and decrease your libido. if you have trouble staying hard and it's not a physical issue...it's probably due to low libido or anxiety...or both. the book i mentioned above can explain this much better than i can hope to in a paragraph.
ps. what is the use of knowing a success rate? try it yourself and if it works...it's a success, lol. Everyones body is different...what works for me may not work for you...but you wont know unless you try!
My only concern is that if I do this, and dont ejaculate is that it may cause even more harm.
Though this is definitely hope.
I wouldnt say I have a low libido, I feel become aroused (without the tell tale signs) quite easily, normally masterbate over fantasy and get the urge at least once every 3 weeks.
I definitely think it is anxiety when with a woman, I get hard, then start getting head or have sex and any negative thought, its gone.
Though I find when masterbating and I am in full swing, like I said I only get hard to a point, then nothing else.
Grrr, to be so close yet so far is very frustrating. What is worse is that I am the only person to have this problem I have seen on this site.