Erection questions - Sexual Health - Men Message Board

Netleyhunter · 12-16-2006, 08:24 PM

I'm 28 and have been going out my first serious girl friend for about 10 months. We are sexually active and I have a few questions,

A normal session for us lasts couple hours, heck it seems we could go on for ever if we could. When we are having intercourse and I have my orgasm I switch my focus to her needs. I pleasure her a number of times through touching, kissing, and some oral sex. Basically doing what I can for her to have multi-orgasm in our session. Normally she has around 3-5 while we are having sex.

I obviously loose my erection after I orgasm, Which is disappointing for me since I feel sort of cheated that like her I can't have 3-5 orgasms. In addition I feel she is cheated since most times I can't get another erection. About half of the time I can get another erection but it is normally an hour or more after my first for me to achieve it.

Is this normal for most guys, not being able to get another erection after orgasm?

Is there anything I can do to get more than one erection in each session, after I orgasm?

Would medication help? (Viagra)

JinL · 12-17-2006, 07:09 AM

Try giving her satisfaction first, then you can use your erection.

Her needs first, then yours.

Gjoe · 12-17-2006, 02:21 PM

yeah, satisfy her first. you can try pulling out just before you climax...move on to pleasing her in other ways...and then when you're more calmed down, continue.

woodyman · 12-17-2006, 06:32 PM

Yeah the old saying Ladies First could well help here.

Give her everything she wants, accept whatever she wants to give back to you, but only in small amounts, because you will keep your erection, and she will feel extremely satisfied with the way you are treating her.

For my girlfriend and me the kissing and touching is an amazing part of the whole time, and so it should be. Just give this to her as much as you can, then at the 3-4 time, then let yourself go and you can enjoy everthing that little bit more, knowing that you dont have to worry about losing it.

Hope you have some good times

Netleyhunter · 12-17-2006, 07:51 PM

Thanks guys,

my concern with stopping before I orgasm is that I may loose my erection if I withdraw. There are times when we are just making love (kissing, heavy petting, caressing, fondling etc..) I get an erection and if I wait too long for intercourse I may go soft and it takes work to get me hard again.

Never tried withdrawning and I guess I'll give it a try.