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Old 01-03-2007, 06:40 AM   #1
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less forceful ejaculation

In recent years, I have experienced less than forcefull ejaculation. (I am 51 yrs old) This produces less than pleasurable orgasm for me. If, during oral sex, if my partner tightens her mouth around my penis, or squeezess giving me a handjob, the ejaculation and pleasure is increased.

However, during regular intercourse, i find that her vagina is not tight enough. She has used ben wah balls and kegel excersizes but it still isn't tight enough to give me a level or pleasurable feeling during orgasm.

The exception was with a very much younger woman whose vagina was extremely tight. Of course, my level of excitment might have contributed to this, but there is no mistaking that her opening was much smaller, as it was initially difficult to make penetration and firmly gripped my penis during the act. Also during her orgasm, it was more like a tight grip of a hand, which produced tremendous pleasure for me.

Since a very young woman is not often available to me, I am wondering if the problem might be me instead of the orfice I am inside. Certainly, I am not as young as i used to be and while I have no trouble achieving erection, it may not be as hard as I would like. In this regard, could it be my erection itself is not squeezing my internal plumbing enough? I'm reminded of how squeesing the end of a water hose will increase the spray. Hence, if my penis were harder, would it result in a tighert passage for my ejaculate?

I have also noticed that my erection is lost almost immediately after orgasm and requires more rest and stimulation to renew. For both the hardness and recovery, I am thinking of taking an ED med like viagra or levitra.

Any thoughts on how this might correct my problem?

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Old 01-04-2007, 04:40 AM   #2
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Unhappy Re: less forceful ejaculation

This is normal considering your age. Ejaculations do become less forceful and there will be less volume as you grow older. Eventually the ejaculate will more likely just ooze out, rather than shoot out, and there will be far less of it than when you were younger.

 
Old 01-04-2007, 05:13 AM   #3
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Re: less forceful ejaculation

The quality of the erection won't change the nature of the ejaculation. The muscles that ejaculate the semen are located in your body not in your penis. But it may be that the quality of the erection isn't what it used to be and that may be contributing to the difference in what you feel during intercourse. If your erections are becoming less reliable (less firm), you might want to talk with your doctor about viagra or other meds.

 
Old 01-07-2007, 01:55 PM   #4
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Re: less forceful ejaculation

I am not sure if i got an answer in there. if i used ED meds, will the hardness improve the force and improve the sensation of *******? Remember, when it is squeezed it is both more forcefull and more pleasuerable.

 
Old 01-09-2007, 04:12 AM   #5
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Re: less forceful ejaculation

No, I don't think that ED medications will change the force of your ejaculations much, if any. They will help your erections to be more
powerful. What can help increase force and volume somewhat, however, is a higher state of sexual excitement on your part.
Perhaps this is why you have more force and volume when your partner
performs oral sex on you--this is more exciting to you and causes a heightened sexual arousal in you which, in turn, leads to more forceful
orgasms. Try some new positions and situations that you find especially
exciting and see if this might not be the case.

 
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