I am new at this and have to say I am glad I found this board.
Ok here is our situation. We have had Amazing sex many times and all the sudden a few weeks prior i have noticed he didn't seem to want to have sex with me and it bothered me for a few weeks and I finally had to ask him if he was getting it elsewhere. Believe me I hated asking him that because I finally found the man who I truly love to death and feared losing him.well he told me (he) hasn't been working for awhile and he was worried also so we talked about this and I am going to do everything I can to help him. He really doesn't deserve this to happen to him. I guess porn doesn't help him get an erection either. what i did was read some of the post to him to let him know he is not the only one going thru this. I know he is feeling really bad and I don't want him to feel bad for not being able to please me I am ok with this now knowing what is going on with him I just miss being skin to skin with him but I don't want to add pressure on him by asking him if we could just lay together naked holding eachother in eachothers arms.
Is there any advise in what can I really do to help him with out feeling like I am pressureing him?????
What can he do to get an erection?????????
Please help me help him. Thanks in advance for your help.