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Old 02-18-2007, 11:39 AM   #1
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Sex Question??

Im 20 years old been with females but i was curious about having sex with a male now i was wondering how anal sex felt? does it hurt all the time the first time? do guy enjoy that and blowjobs i wonder how it feels for a guy to do it to me idk im young i just want to exp i guess im i going to hell if i do all that.?

 
Old 02-18-2007, 02:04 PM   #2
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Re: Sex Question??

anal sex can be painful but you need a lub and plenty of it!
If you want to try it and know someone with the same feelings then go for it!
but use a condom
enjoy

 
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Old 02-18-2007, 04:36 PM   #3
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Re: Sex Question??

Guys are pretty good at giving guys pleasure because they know what is good for them, and can use this knowledge to provide good feelings.

Before you go and try anal sex with a guy, try using a ***** or similar (NOT GLASS) and using plenty of lube try it out on your self. Then you will know some of what to expect. Bear in mind that most guys are different so it will be different with most guys. Make sure he uses a condom, extra safe variety and plenty of lube.

And I very much doubt if you will go to hell - humans have done much worse than had a bit of anal pleasure!

 
Old 02-19-2007, 04:14 PM   #4
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Re: Sex Question??

txguy, have you ever had an exam for colon cancer? That was only a finger!

 
Old 02-19-2007, 04:36 PM   #5
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Three things to remember....plenty of foreplay, to loosen up the sphincter muscles so that they can take something without pain, and plenty of lube...and stay safe.
What God would send people to hell for eternity, for following the urges nature gave them in the first place? No one is being hurt, or violated...just two people giving each other pleasure.

 
Old 02-20-2007, 12:05 PM   #6
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Re: Sex Question??

Tx,

I'm sure you'd experience a good bit of pain anally, but obviously you seem to have some kind of belief or issue concerning going to hell over this.


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Old 02-22-2007, 05:26 AM   #7
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I'll share something with you, that I ordinarily would not.
I had those same feelings when I was your age. I didn't act on them, because I thought it would 'turn' me gay permanently, and I wanted to have kids.
The curiosity still haunts me, decades later. I now know that many, or most, people are adaptable, and fully capable of enjoying sex with the same gender. A sexual act does not define who you are. If you are gay, you will be gay, even if you only have hetero sex. If you are straight, no amount of gay sex will turn you. I say follow your heart and your dreams, whichever way you go, while you are not committed to anyone. Enjoy. That is what life is for.

 
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