Hi Guys, I found this website (via google) as I am noticing a reduction in my labido and wanted to know if this was 'normal'. I was really pleased to read all the messages already sent in.
I am 40 and have been single for 3 years. I thought I had a very high labido as I wound mastibate 4-5 times a week.
I am now in a relationship with a woman and find that I'm not very interested in having sex with her. I don't know whether it's a lack of chemistry with her; or if it is because I am so used to getting turned on by my own internal fantasies (and images of women) - or perhaps I'm just not as interested in having sex with someone else as much as I used to.
I was interested to read other comments about the slow decline of male labido, and to be honest, this is a relief to me. I spent the years between 14 and 35 being very sexually frustrated and never got enough sex!
It seems that women get more horny as they get older and we loose it. Seems a shame. Oh well.