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Old 04-05-2007, 09:49 PM   #1
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Small Penis Please Help

Hey I am 20 years old and am very unsatisfied with my penis size. Everyone is always joking about this **** around me and i'll even get laughed at cause i have a shoe size of 9. My penis is maybe 12 cm at most when erect so about 5 inches and I was wondering if there is anything i could do to make it bigger. Does exercises work such as stretching techniques, Jelqing?....... or do supplements work, the ones they advertise online etc......do they actually work, is it possible or no? It's so small that a chick can't be on top unless she thrusts really slow because it's so small it will just come out...

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Old 04-06-2007, 04:35 AM   #2
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12cm is a pretty reasonable size, so stop worrying.

You do not say what ethnicity you are, but this is a factor in penis size, generally Asian guys are a bit smaller than afro Caribbean with white guys somewhere in between. There will always be smaller and always be bigger though!

Be happy with your penis, it sounds a good size, and bear in mind that a lot of people actually prefer a smaller penis! Find the positions that work for you, and use these to your advantage, and forget the ones that don't work.

Forget all about trying to make it bigger, pills and potions wont work, and just cost money. Surgery is unproven long-term and can make things much much worse. Pumps may show improvement but for a short time only, so not worth the bother.

 
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Old 04-06-2007, 11:34 PM   #3
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im white......and it is a big deal because i seem to be joked around a lot that i have a small penis because i have a smaller shoe size and i have no confidence

 
Old 04-07-2007, 10:09 AM   #4
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I remember one time measuring my Ex's and to my surprise it was just shy of 6 inches but it seemed very large to me!!!!! So 5 inches? What cha complaining about? 5 inches is the average size of the penis...do a search on the internet for it!

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Old 04-07-2007, 10:22 AM   #5
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Re: Small Penis Please Help

You're worried about 5 inches? My god man, get over it. You are completely average! Yes, you have small feet, but there's nothing small about your penis. And everyone knows that that comparison is a JOKE, not based on reality at all.

Seriously, no one believes it. But your reaction may be implying to them that it's true, so you're going to have to stop reacting like that.

Your friends have probably picked up on your discomfort at the teasing and are just going with it because you flinched. Try to find some kind of comeback to shut them up. Or just go with it. It's all in your mind at this point. (Ever heard the version, "You know what they say about men with small feet? Small shoes.")

As for your problem with girl-on-top, that's has more to do with technique. Even a large guy can pop out of a girl if she (or the two of you, depending on who's in control) isn't doing it right. That just takes practice, so shift positions, line things up better, whatever, don't blame it on your size.

 
Old 04-07-2007, 10:27 AM   #6
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Beleive me it is not that your penis is small, it is your self confidence that is small. This is what you need to enlarge, and luckily for you there are many ways of doing this. There are self help methods, or you could find a counsellor or some other professional to help you, there is hypnosis, all sorts of ways. But don't lay your guilt on your penis or your feet!

Forget about your "small" feet, they are probably big enough to stop you falling over and mean that you can normally find shoes to fit! I am jealous having always had huge feet - you see the grass is always greener ...

Sorry if I am being direct, but I don't know you and this may be the best way to get it across to you - if not then don't take it personally!!

If so called mates are joking with you, take it as a joke. Laugh back and say something like "well at least I don't trip over my big feet!" Don't get into arguments/discussions with mates/colleagues/ classmates etc. about this or your penis size, they will see that you really do take it personally and will keep on pressing that button, it is only people taking out their own insecurities on other people who they find it has an effect on. Ignore it.

In terms of penis size, ignore what you see in the changing room, don't get hung up about others being larger than you. You may still be growing, or they may be chubbed up whereas maybe yours shrinks in the locker room (I know mine does!). The only way of telling how big a guy really is is when he is fully erect, and unless you fancy this you are unlikely to see that many guys in that state. If you did (and yes I do!) you would find that most of them are pretty similar, sometimes a bit thicker, or a bit thinner, or a bigger glans than shaft or vice versa. Realise that everybody is different and the minor variations become just that, variations.

I hope this helps you, good luck!

 
Old 04-07-2007, 10:39 AM   #7
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It seems to me that you are thinking of all negative things to support your idea that your penis is too small. 5" is normal, there a lot of guys that would give any thing to have the 5" penis. So start thinking positive and enjoy!!

 
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Keep in mind the old saying - it's not the size of the wand, it's the magic it performs. In other words, learn a lot and use what works best. You'll still be learning in 20, 30, 40 years....

 
Old 04-08-2007, 06:46 AM   #9
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Does penis englargment pills actually work? there are so many some must work right? And what about stretching exercises? Do they work?

 
Old 04-08-2007, 01:18 PM   #10
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i too have looked on the internet at penis enlargement exercises and i think they work to some extent i am thinking of trying them when i hit 18, in 2 years time.

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Old 04-08-2007, 02:08 PM   #11
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i was under the impression that my penis is small also. its 5.6"
You poor guys! What have you been reading that makes you think that's small???? I think the porn and the internet have given you the impression that the world is full of men walking around with 7+" penises. Forget it. That's just a giant scam to make you feel insecure about your perfectly normal 5" and make you want to fall for their GARBAGE SCAMS. Do not get sucked in.

challioner, it's a real shame that you broke up with your gf for something so unimportant. You are placing waaay more importance on it than she ever would, and what's worse, you're WRONG.

qwerty123, they are a scam, or else EVERY man on earth with internet access would have a huge penis. And they don't.

 
Old 04-08-2007, 02:49 PM   #12
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My last girlfriend stopped seeing me and was having sex with another guy probably because I couldn't do it for her.....then a had sex with another girl and now she's told me friends it's small....

 
Old 04-08-2007, 04:44 PM   #13
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i wish all girls were like thisby , thats what i fear

 
Old 04-12-2007, 02:09 PM   #14
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The newest worldwide surveys from the medical community, who actually measured, state that the average erect penis is 5.1 inches.

 
Old 04-14-2007, 02:56 AM   #15
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The newest worldwide surveys from the medical community, who actually measured, state that the average erect penis is 5.1 inches.
True, but they don't actually measure the penis when erect. They measure it stretched flaccid. I know that mine is even smaller stretch flaccid. Also, I know that the average is larger for white males. Fun stuff!!!

 
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