Many Sexual Problems- need help
I am 19 and have had one sexual partner. During our relationship, I never got comfortable with sex due to many problems that occured. First off, I had PE issues-the first times we tried sex i couldn't last at all. I've heard of PE where people ejaculate after a few minutes, but it would happen to me right at initial penetration. Even with oral sex, I couldn't last more than a minute. This probably leading to other problems, I then began having trouble getting an erection. When I would finally get one, I would ejaculate immediately. I have had minor depression issues in my life, but I think these sexual problems got me into an extremely low state of mind. This was last year, I haven't even pursued a girl since due to fear of having sex and basically blowing it leading to further embarassment. I tried desensitizing condoms, but even those didn't help much. Sometimes they would allow me to last long, but then I wouldn't be able to orgasm at all. Even with masturbation, it is diffficult for me to last very long at all. At this point of my life I feel that I want more than anything to have a healthy sex life but I need to fix these problems. Any advise would help.