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Old 04-14-2007, 01:01 PM   #1
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Frenulum Tear

Hello, I am a 20 year old male and i've never had intercores but once and that was about a month ago. I was trying anal sex without a condom and without lub, i know its stupid and i dont know what i was thinking. During sex i felt a sharp sting almost like if someone had just taken a bite. It really hurt for the first time and I was bleeding FREAKISHLY from the foreskin where it staches to the penis when the foreskin is retracked all the way back and I was panicing so much that i went to the Emergency. They told me it was just a small tear that they wouldn't recommend any surgery at the moment but to apply NEOSPOREN on it and it will heal and stop the bleeding.

From what i've read about cases like this the foreskin doesnt heal completly but instead there is a chance it will bleed again next time during intercores. I was thinking of getting circumsized but i've heard that at my age it wouldn't be the best choice....

My foreskin looks to be attaced only to like part of the penis and i want to know what i can do to fix this problem. It has bled and im just afraid it my completely tear. I asked a doctor and she said just not to pull it all the way. But my question is wouldnt it affect INTERCOURSE? I want to know what I can do to fix this problem. I wish i had never broke it PLEASE help me someone


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Old 04-14-2007, 01:13 PM   #2
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Re: Frenulum Tear

how can you have never have had intercourse but you have had anal sex????

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Old 04-14-2007, 01:19 PM   #3
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Re: Frenulum Tear

Originally Posted by plainjayne View Post
how can you have never have had intercourse but you have had anal sex????

because i was just experimenting but i didnt want to get her pregnant and she wanted to try it. I dont know what i was thinking...

Old 04-14-2007, 01:31 PM   #4
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Re: Frenulum Tear

what should i do? im so worried

Old 04-15-2007, 02:31 AM   #5
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Re: Frenulum Tear

Have a look at the sticky topics att he top pf the mens health board. It is possible you can stretch it, or it can be lengthened surgically very easily.
It maybe that this is a freak happening and with lube it will be fine. As you have effectively still got a healing wound you must use a condom to prevent any diseases.

Old 04-17-2007, 01:31 PM   #6
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Re: Frenulum Tear

All you can do is let it heal. That has been my experience. No sex, no masturbation until it is completely healed. Otherwise, it just tears again.
The good news is that when it does heal, it heals stronger.
Mine was a problem for months...and never, not once, since.

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