Re: I need a guy's perspective
Elle I think it's the same principal as, say for example, you're having sex and somebody begins urgently knocking at your door. Out of alarm you stop having sex, get up, answer the door, deal with whomever for say 10-15 minutes, then try going back and resuming sex. A lot of the time you can't go back and just restart because the mood has been killed, at least temporarily. Anything that truly upset him can kill the mood. I think it's normal for most.
Hope to have helped.